Well, I am really into anal sex and I've tried it in the past and sometimes the results have been...messy. I am very clean and I try to clean myself down there in preparation of the act, but it doesn't seem to work the way I want. I have tried a douche, with just warm water and soap and it made me so sick that I couldn't even have sex that night, so if that's not what I can do, what else would any of you suggest? I really want to try and have anal sex with my new partner, but he has told me this would be his first anal experience and I want it to be good (and clean) for the both of us. Any cleaning suggestions? Thanks.