Well, my partner and I have been together for...8 months now. I'll go ahead and say I am a virgin, but I have...err...messed with some toys. Well, he and I have been discussing the topic of sex...and how it would work out. He admitted to me that he was large...8 1/2 inches. Now, after toying around, I realized to take 8 1/2 inches anally is...quite a feat. And my first question is....is it possible? I mean, from when I was practicing, it sure didn't seem to be. But if it is and any of you have done it yourself, please tell me how you got ready and how you did it. I'm the bottom in the relationship and I really wouldn't feel right being on top...But I really would like to know what to do. What to practice with, what to watch out for...all the things like that. Any help is appreciated, thank you very much.