I have no experience to any type of anal forplay or sex besides the other night. First off, my gf is bashfull about her butt *because she feels that shes over weight* and i accept the way she feels. We have talked about having anal sex and other types of anal play but think it should wait abit just so we have something to try later. I have seen porn where guys are doing a girl in the butt and it seems as if he gets nothing on his dick. Is that completly true or do guys get some leftovers? I know that there isnt a stalk pile sitting right there, but just little bits here and there. If so is there any ways to prevent this to keep it more clean so its not really gross to put my finger in there to try and stimulate her abit? Also how good is the pleasure for the girl and the guy? Guys do you think its better then normal sex or not as good? Girls, do you really get pleasure out of it and if so is it as good, better, or not as good? Any tips, ideas, questions, ect. would be helpfull into clueing me in on what to expect.