So, recently my wife has really opened up to me how much she enjoys anal play. I enjoy playing with her, and it excites me (a lot) to feel "the bands" inside of her. But, I am kinda jealous. As much as she likes to receive, she doesn't like giving as much. I want to experience anal as well, so I have introduced a p-spot toy. I've read lots of great things, but it doesn't seem to provide amazing results....I'm wondering if different shapes, sizes, etc. are something I should try. I don't want to freak my wife out (who has tried lots of vibes - and has found her favorite) by bringing home lots of anal toys for me, but I want to achieve that amazing pleasure it seems others can reach. Am I being unrealistic? Is there something someone suggests to try?