Anal or not?

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Eros, Jun 28, 2005.

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Where do you fall???

  1. Guy - Hates his anus touched, etc...

    2 vote(s)
    5.4%
  2. Guy - Loves it licked or touched

    9 vote(s)
    24.3%
  3. Guy - Loves it penetrated

    11 vote(s)
    29.7%
  4. Girl - Hates her anus touched, etc...

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  5. Girl - Loves it licked or touched

    6 vote(s)
    16.2%
  6. Girl - Loves it penetrated

    9 vote(s)
    24.3%
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  1. Eros

    Eros New Member

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    Just curious
     
  2. Rose

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    At the risk of sounding redundant, "y" and I found my love of anal penetration quite by accident (at least that's what he says :lol ).
    There are times, however, when we go for it, but it is uncomfortable, so we have to resume regular intercourse.
    I do not like to be licked. It just grosses me out.
    I do enjoy when he touches, especially right before I have an orgasm during oral sex. It sort of catapults me to another level!!
     
  3. Thorn

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    I love it touched and I love for her to touch the area from my anus up to the back of my balls (and balls too, of course) while she's giving head. I've always, even in the early years of marriage, been able to tell her exactly what feels good and she has been willing to do it. As far as her licking my anus, I know it would feel great but I won't ask her to do it because she doesn't feel comfortable with that. I see it in porn and a girl doing it to a guy doesn't do much for me, but a guy doing it to girl is somewhat of a turn on to me. Now the ones that REALLY turn me on are the movies where a girl does a rim-job to another girl. WOOOOOOW!!!!!! :drool I did it once to her and I thought she was loving it but she told me later that it wasn't enjoyable for her. :( She was very clean (always is for our sex) but she still could not get past the mental thing about that particular sex act. I still love her though! :lol
     
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    I normally "up" for it if she wants, mainly because I'm used to doing myself over the years during masturbation sessions.
     
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    I like the touching and penetrating but licking is just gross. I couldn't kiss my man after he licked my ass it's just a gross thought.
     
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    im from lousianna also, small cyber world.
     
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    ...and to add to licked and touched, penetrated. It's all good.
     
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    I have never had my anus licked, touched, or penatrated. Can't say I never will, but I get a little uncomfortable when he gets even close to it, so probably not going to happen in the near future.
     
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    love anal

    I don't mind licking her ass She won't lick mine but thats ok. I have had a girl lick my ass kind of liked it. Don't mind being penertrated feels really good to me. Always has. Just need allot of lube. As far as giving anal to her well if she is in the mood hell ya :)
     
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    Ok, I posted something on another site, but haven't gotten a reply, maybe you all can help. :) I am female and enjoy anal. Just started about a year ago. Trying to find out if there is anything dangerous to it or have to worry about anything long term. Don't do it all the time because I am paranoid about the health issue of it, but my husband is awesome when we do go about doing it & I actually orgasm that way too. So does anyone know is this bad? Anything I should be worried about?
     
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    No problem, just use enough lube and tell him not to "jack hammer" you!

    Enjoy!
     
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    If you are prone to urinary tract infections, you may not want to go back & forth (anal to vagina, to anal, to vaginal...) due to the risk of bacteria being introduced to you. And if your husband is prone, he should use a condom.

    Also, there are some days when your body will tell you "not today". If it just hurts too much upon initial entry, don't force it.

    And welcome to sexualforums.com! You'll find you usually get responses here. (and some people even know what the heck they're talking about... :lol )
     
  13. eandvk

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    Anal

    For myself anal isnt a big turn-on,I enjoy it at times but if she doesnt touch me there Im not going to be un-satisfied. As for my wife, she loves getting caressed , and fingered in the bum while I go down on her...We even have purchased a special anal vibe that we use on her frequently...she has some really strong Os when Im fuc*ing her with it as I lick her clit.
     
  14. Thorn

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    Now my wife wants a anal vibrator after reading your post eandvk. LOL! What's the diff. in anal vibes and regular vibes? She has vibrators that she/we use on her vagina and clit as well as in her bum. BTW, We love anal sex on her but as for me I like her to touch and play but not penetrate. :)
     
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    A major plus both ways. I almost cannot cum unless I either perform anal on her or she straps it on and does me. I have no recollection really of when this started, It is almost as though I just woke up one day and loved it. She has managed to get the entire length of a 10 inch all the way in with absolutley no discomfort to me at all. I cannot imagine being with a man and his pounding me but man to have her behind me filling me up. that drives me nuts.. love it
     
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    yah I love anal to. Love it when my wife puts the strap-on and fucks me hard. I have had the best O's this way. A few times when she would use her big one on me I would cum without her even touching my cock . the thought of this makes me want to go ask her if she would like to bend me over the table and have her way with me. I let you know if she says yes ;)
     
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    Anal or not...

    Well Thorn, sorry if you have to make another sexual toy purchase now...LOL...Send the tab for the toy to me at..........LOL....
    The difference in an anal vibe is, at least the one we own, is this vibe is narrow at the tip and gets thicker with about every half inch or so of length, culminating to a thickness of about 2 1/2 inches at the base or so. With about seven inch length. The material is slick like/rubbery, and doesnt need any lube at least in our case. I just get the vibe wet with my wifes own natural lube and shes able to enjoy penetration without any other lubes or worrys. So no need to stop and grease the thing up...lol..and no worrys about washing the vibe after...our own juices clean off easily.. Other vibes we own are usually stiffer/harder (butt vibe is softer more pliable) and can hurt her even with slow play...my wife truly prefers this vibe to the others...and its vibrating mechanism is real good. BTW its a Doc Johns*n product.Hope that helps...and hope you enjoy a new toy in your repertoire. Would love to hear how your wife enjoys it!
     
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    You can touch, you can kiss, you can lick, but I have far better places for all of that.

    There will be no penetration of any sort for me.
     
  19. Thorn

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    Same here kbate. It does turn her on though so it's a reg part of our wild sex life. :nuts
     
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    Havn't had it licked yet. I voted Penetrated. Cause thats all one person can do. I'm not that flexible you know?
     
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