Anal beads

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Kulprit88, Nov 10, 2014.

  1. Kulprit88

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    So, my wife loves her Anal beads. She has now asked if I'd want to try a set.
    I told her I might but I'm hesitant.
    She asked how one would begin to introduce something like that.
    I told her there has to be some kind of penis pleasure involved to.
    She suggested doing it in the shower. I don't really think that will work due to being standing.
    Any one have any input? I'm nervous and shy.
    Is it good?
     
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  2. HotForHoney

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    "Input".... Haha


    I'd say the same applies to anal - relax and lube
     
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  3. sagswing

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    Wouldn't try first time in shower . . . might be a bit awkward. Get him face down on bed right after show, lube and go!!!! Lots of touching to warm him up, TUHA, penis handling, etc. will help.

    Do NOT tell him that he's well on the way to pegging and fisting . . . yet :confused:
     
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    I honestly do not have any experience with it giving or receiving. But I would say lube and relax....maybe a drink to calm nerves lol
     
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    Has anyone ever had beads in their ass?
    Good? Bad?
     
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  6. sagswing

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    It can be VERY good, especially if she has an exquisite sense of timing. While beads are not our number 1 choice, they are fun and may be a bit less intimidating that other forms of assplay. Just drive all thoughts of gay out of your head. Gay is the sex you are attracted to, not what you are doing. The SO and I love assplay in both directions and it is a lot of fun to experiment. Personally, I'd recommend you start with a prostate massager as they are not "too big" (most just thicker than a large finger) and don't require a lot of preparation. Beads can be fun with the right person popping them out at JUST the right time, otherwise, they can be a bit "meh".
     
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    i just started playing with beads...its intense and awesome....if i could just get my wife to enjoy and play with me as well, omg that would be amazing.
     
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    Just clean up & use lube.

    We've had sessions where I fill her with a set and then then she fills me. With both of us having sets inserted we then just carry on with some good fucking.

    In missionary position if you can time it, it great for either partner to have them pulled out during their orgasm.
     
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    I've had a butt if and my gf's vibrating dildo in me and it feels great! Unlike anything else you will enjoy very much... I shower and then lay on back ass on a pillow and she kneels in grunt of me legs in air and inserts slowly with lube it's a blast and makes me cum with little penis touching
     
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  10. John W

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    Give it a try. Trust me, open up to this, it will open other doors. Damn, now I'm horny...
     
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