So a little background, my husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for 2 years. We would constantly have sex, 3 times a day sometimes 4, and this was before I got pregnant and had our son. Since then we don't have as much sex, we're now down to once a week, maybe twice. Even before I gained weight from being pregnant, I was always a big girl. I'm about 5'1" and around 230 which I carry most of the weight in my butt and thighs. I am currently losing weight and have already lost 30lbs, so it's a working progress. Now on to my question. Very recently I started having sex with my husband with me on top, a position I never liked doing before because my hips are narrow (despite the extra weight) and it would hurt, but while I'm on top I kind of work through the discomfort and am able to have an orgasm. What's really got me bugged is while I'm riding my husband, he'll sometimes make these faces that look like he's disgusted from looking at me. 98% of the time we have sex at night when our son is asleep and only have a very dim light on, but once in awhile we'll have sex during the day and I can see these facial expressions. I've tried talking to him about it, but he shurgs it off like I'm crazy or something. Is it possible that the site of my body is grossing him out? He never orgasms with me on top and wants to turn me over so we're doggie style and that seems to be the only way he will have an orgasm. So I just want honest opinions that maybe the site of me is really grossing him out?