Am I bi?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by SpiderSnake, Jan 25, 2011.

  1. SpiderSnake

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    Could anyone say whether im bi or not? Women are my first love & always will be but I did have sex with a gay couple some years ago, I really enjoyed it & would really like to do it again.
    I couldnt see myself in a loving relationship with a man, I dont fancy men at all but I enjoyed the sex. If & when I see a pretty girl I get the thought that i'd like to 'test drive' her, I have NEVER thought that about any man. If anything, I would bed a very convincing shemale.
    Bi implies I would be happy with either male or female, bi curious suggests im curious about gay sex but i've actually been there & enjoyed myself...
    With all the above in mind, what would be the right term for me?
     
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    would you have sex with men again?

    i'd say you're bisexual, the only thing keeping me from saying bi curious is because like you said, you've already experienced and enjoyed it.

    but really, whatever 'term' is really up to you and what you think you are
     
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    i don't think there are any definite terms when it comes to bisexuality. there's only a continuum of preference. some people are 100% heterosexual or gay/lesbian. Most fall somewhere between the two. Whether you're 40%, 60%, or 80% of whatever, leaning towards whatever, is not as important as whether or not you're happy and fulfilled. have fun. :)
     
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    dirty washing and public aint good :ugh
     
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