Most of the time, when my wife and I make love, I am focused on her. Even so, occasionally, when she has done a hand job on me or even if I am fucking or licking her, some of the women of SexualForums come to mind such as Puss or Bella or pirouoette or Bluesy or even all of them at the same time. Right about time time I am ready to cum, sometimes they have come to mind and the thought of them "sends me over the edge", so to speak, at that moment, as I orgasm. In the past before I became involved here, other women, such as someone I worked with or someone I had seen somewhere, came to mind, occasionally, right about the time I cum. Am I being faithful to my wife if that happens? I've never been able to control it, it just happens sometimes and has always happened. Sometimes I have been totally focused on my wife and sometimes someone else or a group of other women have come to mind just as I cum. Any guys experience such things or any women experience such things? I've never been quite sure why that happens. I've felt kind of guilty about it when it does happen no matter who came to mind. Maybe I am just weird. Right now I just feel very horny and wish that my wife and I were alone in our bedroom. Hope what I just shared doesn't "freak anybody out". It's just somethings about myself I am examining and dealing with emotionally and intellectually.