So...okay, I get that this forum is about actual sex, not not being able to get laid. But I don't really know what else to do, I just need to vent. I am going to be 29 very soon. I still have never kissed anyone, not once in my life. Obviously I've never had sex. I guess I really just need to vent about it. But I don't know why this happened to me. It's a pretty miserable experience, because obviously this is not what I wanted. I've been in love with people before, I was even in love with a friend of mine and she completely shattered my heart and it's been hard to let go. I've had tons of crushes on women and men that went absolutely nowhere. Nobody ever feels the same! I wonder if anyone else here has the same issue (I'm guessing no). It's made me really depressed and feeling hopeless and often like a freak of nature. I want to do things, but I can't because I just can't have any kind of relationship with another person. I also have trouble making friends so I'm guessing the two are probably related. It just feels like people don't like me very much, which I guess would explain why I'm approaching 30 with zero kisses to my credit. Anyway...someone is probably going to laugh at me or whatever. I was on a website for people with involuntary celibacy but I got treated like crap...a lot of people have zero respect for women going through this, especially online. A lot of men think that this only happens to men. I don't know if anyone's been through something similar or has any ideas ...real ideas...about how I can solve this problem. A lot of what people say isn't helpful, "Get out and meet people." I meet people and they don't want to be around me, that doesn't help. I guess people just don't understand, so they don't know how to advise. ...I'm not sure what anyone's going to say to this.