All right, Bluesy. Your move.

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  1. John Keel

    John Keel New Member

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    "I'm 27 and I got two phone numbers yesterday and I'm in a relationship that I'm deeply ambivalent about and beyond that I'm an unfortunately talented liar."

    That's me. Bluesy thinks this'll make for an interesting post. Have at it, then.
     
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    Well, I hope you're looking for input from more than just little ol' me, because I'm no relationship expert. It's great that you want to discuss it, and this is certainly a good place for it, but it would be really helpful if you expanded on your situation a bit. Why is the fact that you're a good liar relevant to the two phone numbers and your relationship doubts?
     
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    ? I'd love to comment... but I'm lost!
     
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    Did you ask for these two numbers, or do you so easily enamor others that they give you their number without provocation?
     
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    Wouldn't that be nice. I asked. I ask a lot. I get a lot.

    Sometimes they give me their numbers and sometimes I ask them and sometimes I just charm the pants off of them. Mostly I ask and mostly they give.

    I'm not ambivalent anymore, sad to say. I ended the relationship yesterday. She's a sweet, sweet girl, and I love her, and that's kind of the problem.

    I love women. They're all different and they're all the same and I love their individuality and I love all of the things they have in common. They smell good and they're soft and they laugh at my jokes and they feel amazing. Women are wonderful.

    I love her as a person, but I don't love her enough. She couldn't compete with that. Competition isn't what she wants and it isn't fair to her.
     
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    Hell - you're 27, unattached. where's the problem?

    As long as you're okay with being in limbo, relationship speaking, then take the numbers & run. The 2 of you are on separate pages so there's no sense in dragging it out, and disrespecting her because you want to roam.

    All of us have been dumped (well... except maybe you :eyes) - but as long as you treat the 'dumping' in a respectible manner, you've done what you had to do.

    so... which girl are you going to call first?[​IMG]
     
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    I've been dumped, once. It wasn't much fun. That being said, she went out and got fat and sad, so it was probably a good thing.

    I got a Miss...Nebraska, I think. I got a Miss Nebraska contestant's number this morning, and I got a barely legal redheaded vegan's number about twenty minutes later. I'm debating.
     
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    Okay - if you go for the Miss Nebraska chick, i think there's a couple guys on here who would bid on that Redhead's number... just a thought ....
     
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    "Yeah, I bought your phone number off a guy I met on an internet sex forum. Want to go - hello? Hello?"

    I'm calling Irish tomorrow and Miss Nebraska on Sunday.
     
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    hmm, I wonder if the Vegan will let you eat.... nah, forget I brought that up.
     
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    No, it's okay. I'm a vagitarian.
     
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    A vaginatarian? Is that what you meant to say? ;)

    You did the right thing, hon. Not everyone is cut out for monogamy, and some people need to sow lots of oats before they get there, or find someone who inspires them to settle down. What's important is that you're living the kind of lifestyle that suits your needs and are upfront about that with the women you date (so there is no miscommunication and heartbreak later on).

    Go get 'em, lady killer.
     
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    or find someone who is also not into monogamy
     
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    My apologies :eek: I didn't mean to leave out the alternative lifestylers.
     
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    no need to apologize. I'm sure no one took offense.
     
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    I find absolutely nothing wrong with what he is doing....I too dated alot and loved womens company when I was younger...at the time when I was 27 - 30, I had many friends who always asked when Id finally settle down like them, well,most of those friends are now divorced because they were getting married way too young, they got bored or found as they reached their 30s, their compatibility wasnt there any longer. Im glad I met my wife ( and I knew she was the one right away) when I was 32.....Id had my fun, sowed my oats and was ready to settle down,and today we are celebrating our 7th wedding anniversary!
    So...go and have fun while you are young....and just be honest with the ladys....and when the right one comes along, youll stop liking all the qualitys of every lady , but devote your love to the qualitys of that right special lady!
     
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    just make sure that nobody gets too attached and have lots of fun with as many people as you want to
     
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    (A belated) *~*~Happy Anniversary~*~* to you! What is the 7th anniversary...a vibrating cock ring or flavored massage oil? I can never keep these things straight ;)
     
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    Its either or Bluesy....the thing that needs to be straight is always straight and ready when it needs to be...:dgrin
     
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