Due to various issues in my personal life, I feel unable to enter in to a long term relationship and am just looking for something fun and casual. I never lie to any women and always say that I'm not looking for anything serious - be it on dating sites or that I just get talking to (which isn't very often). On of the problems is, I go through mass droughts of no female attention at all, to my current situation which is thus: I've recently started meeting a lady for drinks and, the other night (after a few pints) it got quite naughty and we had a fondle. However, I'm slightly worried that she's getting the idea it might be something more than casual. At the same time, I've also started talking to a lady who is up for NSA fun - she's really kinky and sexually confident and will me to experience a couple of fantasies/desires I have. Neither know about each other yet as nothing's really happened, I'm just pissed off that, as always, all the female attention comes at once and I have to choose, instead of it being a steady stream! Any feedback on what I should consider doing would be appreciated.