I am going out with a girl that just turn 18. I am almost a decade older then her. I was not looking to go out with a girl that was 18, i was not waiting out side of a high school. But i dont fully understand what is wrong with it. I know and i dont want guys imparticular to go out with girls of a certain age. But i am not sure what that age really should be morally. I will, do and try to go by the law. And even if the the age changed to 16 i would not make a major attempt at going after girls at that age. And i know for a fact i do not want to go out with a girl that is younger then 16 even if she comes on to me. So here is what i am trying to get at. What is wrong with a person of my age going out with an 18 yr old. I know it is legal but morally or just tangibly why should i not be doing this. I am the youngest of the family, cause of work i have few younger or older then me so i dont have a point of reference. I dont see how an 18 yr girl is innocent or how her going out with a teenage guy is better then going out with me. I know we dont have allot in common but that is part of what we like about each other. I dont think that neither of our parents are going to like this either. And even if i were to go into the fututer and met her when we were both the same age we would not have that much in common. I dont understand the idea behind maturity either, i dont know why enmaturity is a bad nor do i see me or any of my old friends being any more or less mature then what they were when they were 15-17. I guess part of the problem is that i (and some of my friends) were a pretty serious people since i was 12 and because of that i find it hard to see how i am taking advantage of an 18 yr old. Basically i dont see how i am going to be able to hurt her any more or less then an 18 yr old male. I care about her i want to fuck her, i dont want to hurt her, and i doubt that the relationship is going to last more then a few months or may be even a few years. So it is the same as many relationships i have been in. Where is the probelm in my thinking.