Age.. and shit..

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  1. RainbowMuncher

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    I just basicly got told.. that a 14yo girl is better than me..and the guy who said it.. is 18..and in the navy.. Why would a 14yo girl be better than me? One moment a guy says he loves you.. the next he wants someone younger..
     
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    Dont worry by the sounds of things he may well be dumping the 14 yr old for a 12 year old and finding himself chained up and being driven away to prison....


    Better off without being with an adult who enjoys children
     
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    Yeah it is pretty sad when guys go for such younger girls, it is actually pretty sick,

    Trust me you don't need someone like that anyway, sorry his lies hurt you, but thats what love does

    You are a cool girl and you will find a nice gut trust me just don't take guys who will treat you like shit
     
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    sadly you cant always tell, because there are some real smooth charmers out there that are mr.wonderfulduring the chase but pieces of shit when they have won you...
     
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    True but then you say fuck you, fuck you, fuck you, your cool, fuck you, peace, I'm out
     
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    Yeah :) sorry was just pointing out its not always easy to tell which are the good ones to the bads ones all the time.

    But Rainbowlover ...im sure your better off without him.
     
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    I know man that was a joke, I don't think you have ever seen, Halfed Baked, or have you
     
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    ..x.x its irritating.. he is just suddenly all "confused" because some 14yo and some 15yo "love" him..o.o and then.. okay.. i'm emotionally screwed right now.. if i dont take my meds soon.. i'm gonna wind up hiding in my room sobbing for no fucking reason..lol.. and he just decides to go .."oh.. baily.. some 14yo might push you out of the picture.."

    AAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHH......God..o.o I don't even know how badly i need someone right now..lol.. I'm losing it..lol.. and it's like everyone around me is watching me fall and just laughing and not even bothering to even think about helping me..lol
     
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    Young love!! Honey... don't worry, he’s 18 and immature. When you are in your 30’s you will look back and laugh about this. There are lots of fish in the sea… meet people, live life… you are only young once!
     
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    Take them to hell with you, thats what I would do I never give up even when I fail I make them remeber me and all the shit I caused
     
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    Do you have a good support system of friends and family? Talk to them about how you are feeling. Talking to a counselor can help too! Plus… were all here!
     
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    o.o harsh..

    and apparently.. the tv is FAR more important than I am.. <.< says my mother
     
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    Like I said cry out for help and if you are falling bring them with you, thats the only true way they will listen, if you are directly affecting their lives
     
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    uhm.. support system? my family doesn't understand the term "support." unless.. it's supporting someone talking crap about someone else..

    ...that's kind of selfish and harsh

    I am so emotionally..o.o gone.. that..lol.. he'll be telling me something.. and i'll be like.. "Okay.. baily.. be supportive.. and caring.." .."Uhm...So.. you're a pedophile now?"
     
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    Well it only depends to what extent you need help to use this method
     
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    It sounds like you just need a short term break from guys and just take some self time...do some things you fancy doing and that you enoy a lot...if your familt arnt the type to help or support you, then perhaps your friends might, if not then perhaps as steele said a counselor could help ( as in just someone to talk your problems through with )

    Thre are also some cool females in this forum that would maybe be willing to help as well.
     
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    Lovely, I tell you what. I come cali., you can cry on my shoulder, we'll get that asshole arrested, I give you sweet little kiss on cheek and come home, then you feel better. K.
     
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    I'm not sure if the sex boards are where you should be at this point..
     
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    It's all about maturity at that age. Sweetheart don't let a child get to you like that.
    Go for a nice college guy or at leaset someone with a job and some sense of stability.
    Men 20+ at least in age.