After you cum

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  1. cba

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    hello everyone

    Just wondering does anyone get the same feeling as myself after they cum.
    I find that after i cum i just feel abit sleepy, and dont really want to go at it again.
    The thought of spending the night making love sounds fantastic and i really want to be able to cum a few times throughout a full nights pleasure.

    Anyone got any helpful information?

    Thanks
     
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    I'm the opposite, when I cum, I want more. In your perspective, it must be a man thing. I think it is something scientific though why you feel sleepy afterwards!
     
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    I used to feel this way, that was until i met my wife lol, she turns me on so much that rounds 4 and 5 in a night aren't out of the realms of possibility.
     
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    I want more after I cum, I rarely lose my erection after I do it. I'm usually good for three before he quits. Have been accused of faking an orgasm because I usually get harder. I've said before, I think once the little guy realizes we aren't 18 anymore it will change
     
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    Said all that and forgot to say, everyones body does its own thing. Hell, my first one is usually pretty quick so I guess it all averages out.
     
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    it all depends on the situation. one time might be a very long drawn out masturbation after which i'll get quite tired or I could be too horny to quit and just keep going for 3-4 more orgasms.
    its most definetly not the same for me each time.
     
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    Sometimes when I cum it gives me such a luxurious release that I stretch and want to go to sleep. The boyfriend and I have talked about how it goes with him. Sometimes when we're going at it, he "wants to do it a thousand times in a row. This time, this time I'll go again and again." But then he ejaculates and he feels that attitude going away. It's pretty obvious to both of us that it's a chemical shift that happens in a man's body. The way that drive just drains out of him makes him a little sad sometimes. He holds me tight and he's very affectionate and you know what? Before long that attitude definitely comes back.

    Sometimes he does want to go to sleep afterward, so we both sleep deeply for a while and wake up rested and ready. This actually works better during the day. So one thing you might try is spending a whole day making love instead of a whole night. There might be stops and starts and breaks and so on, but it all makes it a very nice day.
     
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    I am a woman and after I cum, I just want to go to sleep. Even when I masturbate. My man thinks something is wrong with me because I am good after that first one. Maybe two orgasms on a horny day. In fact, sometimes I have sex or masturbate just to help myself get to sleep faster.
     
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    I occasionally feel sleepy after I cum, but most of the time I just feel... well, the best term I can think of is "serious". Sometimes, when I'm supposed to be doing something else, I end up getting horny and jacking off to porn instead. After I finish, I find myself getting into whatever it is I was supposed to be doing with unusual zeal.

    It's really quite bizzare, at least to me.
     
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    After I cum, I don't wanna do anything but eat. :) It seems to perk me up, no matter how tired I was beforehand. After I cum, and eat, I'll be up for atleast a couple more hours. Although I do sleep more soundly that night.
     
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    Within the last week ive been masterbating for possibly anything up to 2.5hrs at a time, not cumming until around 2.5hrs. Then i cum and all i want to do is clean up and not even think about it again. like i just lose all my drive completely.
    But i really dont want to be like that when im having sex, i really want to be able to clean up and go again within say 20-30 mins.
    Also i usually go pretty soft straight after, ive only been able to stay hard after cumming maybe twice. We have even now spoke about maybe trying viagra to keep me hard. Im in my mid 20's. Is this a good idea do you think?
     
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    I immediately kill a chicken and thank the goddess of Glee and Passion with its blood painted on 8 specific parts of my quivering body.
     
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    Switch from a chicken to a lamb, the Gods really like those

    And to the op, after 2.5 hours most people would be done. Also if you are stressing over this the little guy won't cooperate. Its sex, have fun, and enjoy it
     
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    sorry, but i am a guy that can have multiples, no stopping, stay hard and feels amazing
     
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    I only have chickens.....

    But it all depends on the situation. After I climax, if she wants more (I usually ask) I will aid her in almost whatever way she desires (even if it means having sex again with an over stimulated phallus).
     
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    Possible health change might be in order. High pure protein, fruit, vegetables, no manufactured carbs, aka cereal and bread. Do lots of weight lifting, and either cardio or anaerobic weight lifting. An in shape body will react in many many ways, and that might make all the difference. Please don't lie to me and say you eat right and are in great shape. Everyone thinks skinny means great shape, but lets put you through a morning of some cross fit and learn the hard truth. Anyways, find a program and get in shape, change your eating ways, and of course no smoking. Drinking doesn't matter so much surprisingly.
     
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    my love and I enjoy the afterglow, we kiss and cuddle and gently stroke each other to the point of arousal again and this makes us (me) ready for round two so to speak, and dont pressure yourself into it, it will happen naturally, just enjoy the hugs and kisses and stroking and it wiill happen.
     
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    Just wanted to say hello to the Glasgow gentleman. I was there last year staying at a flat beside Mount Florida. Rains a lot, but great times. I spent Halloween night in an underground pub right there. I dressed as a Canadian Tourist. I think they bought it.
     
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    i tend to get more energy after i cum. weird, lol
     
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    It really depends. Sometimes I will get tired and fall asleep, sometimes I'll want to have more sex, and sometimes I get disinterested after cumming. Depends on arousal, if I have other things to do, etc.

    Like others have said try exercising, looking at what you're eating and also the time of day you're having sex or masturbating. Also try different places instead of just the bedroom all the time and see if you become sleepy in other places as well.