After some year why problem to sex life

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  1. bond3377

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    I read or my knowledge after marriage or after start sex to some people are tried sexual life
    im not understand what actual region it medical region or it is boring to sex please share any to answer this problem..
    Thanks....
     
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    Can we have that in english??
     
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    I think fortune ungainly twice so try to relax when physical membrane total sea spray.
     
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    He must be a Scot.
     
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    Hi
    Sorry to understand my language but thanks to replay my problem. Actually my problem is after married or start sex some men's are boring what actual region......
     
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    Ahhh Why didn't you say? No really, why didn't you?
     
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    If you are asking if sex gets boring for some people after marriage, the answer is yes. But it does not have to be that way. There are many helpful threads on this website discussing how to keep it interesting.
     
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    I've been with the same man for 13 years and boredom in the bedroom hasn't really been an issue for us. I do a lot of reading and am always looking for new ways to make things interesting. My husband isn't very imaginative, but he's always open to trying new things.
     
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    There you have the answer! As long as you both want to keep it interesting you will. If one doesn't or cannot be bothered, that's when the boredom and problems start.
     
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    Thanks to reply but my problem is understand to which factor to boring sex i says same partner or lose sexual emotion what actual region....
     
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    In the beginning of sexual relationships there is a lot of lust, and yes, it's very exciting and the energy in the bedroom is high. If the relationship progresses after time the lust kind of fades, but it is replaced with a deep love.

    If someone is just looking for a sexual thrill once the lust is gone they are bound to get bored. If they are in it for love, then I don't think boredom is as big of an issue. See, a couple in true love grows together in all aspects of their relationship, that carries over to the bedroom. Each year brings new experiences and the excitement, while perhaps not constant, is still there. How can that be boring?
     
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    Please define Region.
    Maybe we do not understand all of your question.
     
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    I think he means the Nether Lands.
     
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    My actual question is why need to drugs in sex?
     
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    Why you need them? Are you meaning stimulants for you or something to put your partner out?
     
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    Now I'm more confused than ever, and it's not your broken English. First you asked about boredom, now you say you actually meant to ask about drugs. I fail to see what one has to do with the other. ???
     
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    You are right but my problem is drugs are solution to the boredom yes or no?
     
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