[Ask a Girl] After losing your virginity, how long again before...

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  1. harrylal

    harrylal New Member

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    Hi all :)

    I think I've posted in the right place since it pertains to girls.

    The question is, after a girl loses her virginity, how soon after can she have sex again? I know it would vary but what is like the maximum average "waiting" period?

    We'll be vacationing for 7 days....we are both virgins.....we really wanna have sex on that trip but my fear is that she would be too sore for the rest of the trip and wouldn't enjoy it.

    thanks
     
  2. Maverick

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    Uh.....well, however long you want to wait. Every person is different, but the virgins I slept with, it was fuck time all day after the first.
     
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    thanks...that is comforting to hear :p I would hope that's the way it will turn out!
     
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    Everyone is different. I lost my virginity and had minimal pain and was able to have sex again a few hours later. :)
     
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    It was 4 days until I felt like having sex again after the first time. But I hadn't seen my boyfriend during those days so the idea didn't come up anyway.
     
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    Welcome to the site. My humble ( :rofl ) opinion is that even if it makes her sore, she'll still be able to enjoy the trip and enjoy more sex anyway. If she's so sore that she doesn't feel like running around sightseeing, then just have a relaxed, restful vacation. Or if she's sore and doesn't feel like she should have intercourse again for a few days, have sex in the other countless ways that sex can be done. Either way, it can be a nice trip that you'll always remember. Just make it fun and intimate--no pressure and no need to overdo it.
     
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    Good luck. My first was like ready to rock within 10 minutes. One was a couple hours. The other.......LOL.
     
  8. harrylal

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    wow....what was the secret? :/

    damn :ugh... we'll be together quite alot so the idea is bound to come up

    most thoughtful advice here thanks :)

    10 mins wow :eek are u sure it was her first? :p


    thanks for all the responses folks....keep em coming
     
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    No secret, every girl is different. I think it also helped that I was using sex toys before I lost my virginity.
     
  10. Paula

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    Why don't you just enjoy the first time :)

    Relax and enjoy the trip. The rest will follow when you are both ready. Why enforce it?
     
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    Oh ya. She was wild too. Anyways, hope you are having some serious fun. Everyone should get laid daily. ;)
     
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    no toys are involved yet....so it'll be pretty tight :p

    Thanks for the replies :)
     
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    My wife and I took each other's virginity. About 2 hours later we had sex again - which was much more (physically) enjoyable for her than the first time. We had sex a total of 5 times within 24 hours after the first time.