Affairs

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  1. knottyman

    knottyman New Member

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    How many of you are in a true affair, one of you being married to another?

    Yes

    No
     
  2. knottyman

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    Hmmm. This waqs supposed be a poll. Guess I did it wrong. Are there instructions anywhere?
     
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    Are you having an affair Knotty?? ;)
     
  4. McGumby

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    You need to clarify. I think you mean an affair in the traditional sense (sleeping with someone behind your spouse's back), but not completely sure.

    If that is the question, then no. Never have.
     
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    Yes. I have been for 10 years with various women.
     
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    29 yrs together and never considered having an affair.
     
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    Oh, I consider it every time I see an attractive woman, but I love my DW. :D
     
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    Never been married.
     
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    I was the other woman. My hubs was engaged when we had gotten back together the second time. That went on for almost a year before he left her. That's it. Me straying has crossed my mind, but that's just out of lust and wouldn't go thru with it.
     
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    My partner and my husband are two different men, I told my husband our marriage was over before I met my partner so they've known about each other from the start of my new relationship. We will remain married for a number of years - living in the same house, bringing up our children together....so, yes, but hubby knows all about it.
     
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    Moon, awesome but unusual relationships.
    Mine a bit different; still married after 34 years and still am but spouse stopped loving me 15-17 years ago even as I held on to the false dream for a lot of that time.
    Sex almost all but gone then I broke out and found many women lonely & willing.
    Finally got "hit on" out of the blue by girl half my age and we now happily living together for +2 years.
    Sexually active way beyond anything ever before or dreamed of and happy beyond words.
    We both got lucky!
     
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    I have had numerous affairs over the last 15 years of my marriage, more recently a meeting married women who want to have an affair as well. My next meeting is this Friday coming with Mandy, and if she's half as nice in person as she was on the phone when we had a long conversation together, then it's going to be very good.
     
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    It's hard to find a hotter woman than my wife. She's 46, looks 32, works out daily, after two kids she's a size 0/1 with 11% bodyfat. Arms, legs and abs very defined. Most 20 yr olds would kill for her body. Natural blonde, blue eyes. Got no reason to go....or look anywhere else.
     
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    I had what could be construed as a double affair when I was in my late twenties. Had a declared girlfriend and two other women I was seeing at the same time, none knew of the others until I was with one and ran into the girlfriend.


    There was hell to pay, I lost all three.....and rightfully so...I will never do that again....ever.
     
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    Never had an affair, though it was close at a time we had stopped communicating and started taking each other for granted. We both decided we didn't want to go that route, and after directing the energy we would have put into affairs back to each other, things have skyrocketed and I can't see an affair being worth anything for me.:)