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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by heafra300, Jan 9, 2013.
Does anyone have any advice for a couple about to lose their virginity?
Relax, use protection even if you are on the pill and be sure that its what you really want to do. Try lots of foreplay and don't be disappointed if the first time doesn't last long. It will hurt a bit, relaxing may make it a little easier for you. Don't try to do anything crazy, make it slow and sensual. Don't use porn as a guide, its not real life. If you are still living at home, don't try to sneak around your parents to have sex. Go elsewhere. Pay for a hotel for a night if you have to. Above everything else though, just have fun.
Thank you so much for the words of wisdom, we'll certainly be using protection even though I'm on the pill. I'm worried it's going to hurt a lot, he's quite large down there and I'm very petite. Any advice as far as oral sex goes would be much appreciated too as we're both excited to try it?
have him use his fingers quite a bit inside you before he tries to enter you with his penis. get used to the feeling of something there first. start with one, then have him add another when you feel comfortable, etc. as far as oral- you will learn best by doing. theres all kinds of techniques you can use, but a lot of it you can figure out as you go too. Just remember to use your hands, both of you, as well as your mouth, and DON'T BITE. good luck and have fun and be safe.
Thanks for the advice. I figure we'll just learn as we go, I guess that's part of the fun, right?
I just wanted to let everyone who offered advice know that our first time went great!
Expecting to read details in today's sex thread.....
I don't think everyone wants to know the details.
Now thats just crazy talk.
it is a SEX forum afterall....
Thats great!!! Im glad it went well... as for the details.......love to hear em. lol