My friend asked me could I post this so she can get some feedback. She knows this older guy who is 57, he is married but I guess tells her he isn't happy, and he has money. She has slept with him 3 times, but she says she has to work extra hard to get him going. Wondering what do you think? She has said she thinks she is falling for him, I did remind her he is married and it will probly not divorce his wife of 24 yrs and marry her and give her his money. We are wondering what are ur views on this.
Among all the other things that are (IMO) a bad idea, if he has a hard time getting going now, it will probably get worse when the excitement of newness wears off.
I have to agree. Once his infatuation wears down, he'll find his satisfaction with someone else. If the relationship started just for the sake of sex, it can wind down just as quickly.
Well said. No offense, but sounds like your friend is just a temporary concubine. If she's OK with that and the deceit involved (I do hold him more responsible than her), then fine...if not, there are plenty of single men out there. Some of them have money, if that's her main motivation. Again, no offense, but I think maybe your friend needs to grow up a bit. BD
She is in her early 30's, he already dumped her and told her she was only good enough for sex, not even considered a mistress, it came back and bit her on her ass. I agree she does need to grow up,
Men with money often attract, even if they are taken already, ugly as hell and bastards to boot. Just look at the tabloids. I'm sorry for your friend Hotbabe. Unfortunately it is common...:ugh
