Forgive the super long post before the question, but I think it's important for full context of the situation... One of my co-workers and I have become quite good friends both at work and outside of work over the past few months. At first we were hesitant to even be seen passing each other on the sidewalk outside of a work setting because she is (1) my direct supervisor, (2) 11 years older than me, (3) married with 5 kids, and (4) her husband works out of town a lot for extended periods of time and people love to gossip around here. So, this Monday was a night we both had off. Her husband was out of town, The Lady was working, all our other friends were unavailable, and we both felt like having a real person to interact with in real life so we met up for drinks. About thirty minutes and a drink or two in she, out of nowhere, started talking about how (sexually) frustrated she was, how frequently she was masturbating, her husband’s inattentiveness to her sexual needs, and kept asking me questions about my habits/sex life. I answered not really thinking too much of it. She and I are friends, right - so what’s the harm? I masturbate, I have sex, my situation is frustrating at the moment, why lie about it or cover it up? I did, however, keep stressing the importance of talking to your partner about “these sorts of things.” Then she says, “You know [my husband] is jealous of you, right?” Instant, “Oh shit!” moment in my head - mostly out of self preservation instincts; the dude could eat me alive if he wanted to. So I tried to laugh it off and said something close to, “Yeah, right! Because I’m such a threat to him. There’s no way he thinks you and I are up to anything! Forget it - he’s just doing the stereotypical territorial guy thing.” To which she shrugged and said, “If I were going to…” trailed off - and I pretended that I never heard that comment or saw the little shrug... Tuesday night rolls around. I get a random text message around 1:45AM. It’s from her saying she can’t sleep and she wants someone to talk to. Okay - innocent enough - so I ask “What did you want to talk about then?” She just launches right back into it! I get a 5 page text on all the stuff I mentioned above with the added fact that she’s been surfing “casual encounter,” webcam, and porn sites. I made it a point this time to say that she needed to talk to her husband about all this; not me. She brushed it off with a "Yeah, I know" and then went right back to it. I said the conversation was making me feel uncomfortable. She kept messaging anyway. So I stopped replying. She kept sending messages, though, getting a lot more lewd and “inappropriate” as things went on - detailing what she was looking at and how it was making her feel in the moment. When she started talking about what she was doing aside from just looking at "adult" stuff (i.e. telling me she was touching herself; she "just had to") I finally broke down and turned off my phone. (To answer why I kept checking my texts: occasionally we are contacted by one of the program managers and so have to be accessible at all times when on shift; I didn't want to accidentally ignore one of the Big Bosses.) When I turned my phone a few hours later I deleted all the messages in my inbox without checking them... Next time we ran into each other (at work) she asked if I'd gotten all the messages she sent. I lied and said no - they must not have sent or maybe one of our phones was acting up. She just kind of gave me a funny look (like she knew I was lying) and then we went about business as usual. No mention of the past few days because it wasn't the topic of conversation. Despite that it was very tense and awkward (for me at least). After all that: I don’t know what to do here! I'm almost 100% certain that all that stuff will get brought up again. I haven’t yet mentioned any of this recent development to The Lady (but I do plan to, for the record), but I’m not sure how to properly handle this. Also please forgive if this sounds like some crazy adolescent fantasy - I swear this is all legitimate. What advice can anyone out there give me on this?