advice Please?!?!

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by johnnybigbanana, Oct 10, 2007.

  1. johnnybigbanana

    johnnybigbanana New Member

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    not sure if anything like this has been posted butis there any advice to try and convince my girlfriend to have sex? Thannks for any help
     
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    cant force a girl to have sex so either wait till she's ready or leave.
     
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    Nope. Only she can decide when she's ready. And if you try to get her to do it and she still isn't comfortable with it, it won't be as fun for you anyway.
     
  4. heelfetish

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    I agree completely. There is nothing you can do to 'convince' her. Anything you say or do will be considered 'pressure' and won't get you anywhere.
     
  5. cook74

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    Are flowers and romance out of the question? :shrug
     
  6. heelfetish

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    I wouldn't consider those to be methods of persuasion. Flowers and romance are just a nice gesture, and should be part of any relationship. :)
     
  7. Dreama

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    Wow. I think that question is really selfish. When she's ready, you'll know. Don't try to rush it, or she'll become uneasy. I really wouldn't be too happy with a man trying to convince me to have sex, either.
     
  8. cook74

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    I guess I don't really understand his question then. Maybe he worded it wrongly and didn't mean "convince" in an intimidating fashion. Maybe he meant that he thought his methods of trying to arouse the girl were not working and he needed some advice.

    Words are quite strong sometimes...convince, persuade, force...

    Some people don't fully appreciate the strength of particular words.

    The post might be an innocent one :shrug and poor old Johnny might be in a bit of a bind.
     
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    Cook, did you take some smart pills today? You have made some excellent posts for a change.:p
     
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    For a change , hey....:uhh: That's me thinking what I will do with you.
     
  11. Barbwire

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    What, tie me up naked and hang me from a tree during 50 m.p.h. winds?