This doesn't have to do with sex; but I'd like some advice regarding the situation between my boyfriend and I. First a little background. My boyfriend and I were friends for a while before we got into this relationship. We had slept together beforehand. My boyfriend moved back to Texas over a year ago to be with his ex girlfriend. In August of last year she was killed in a car accident. He later found out she had been cheating on him with numerous guys because he was able to read her ims. Fast forward to March 20th of this year when I came down to Texas to be with my boyfriend and to try to have a relationship with him. It seemed to be going well between us when I was first here. But then money problems started happening. He was forced to get another job in addiction to his full time job. That has been a strain on us. Also the fact that July 26th would have been his ex's birthday and August 11th is when she died don't make it any easier. He still has feelings for another woman who is with someone else. Lately, we've been growing apart. We're always honest and open with each other regarding how we're feeling. I'm trying to reconnect with him; but it's hard. He doesn't want to show any kind of physical affection which makes it really hard. I was in a marriage like that and that is one of the reasons why I got divorced. What do I do? Not sure if trying will make a difference. I really love my boyfriend and want to make it work.