My boyfriend is a huge butt person. Which is obvious in being with me. No chest, Holy Grail of an Ass as most people put it. Now in the last few months he brought up interest in anal activities with me. Now originally I NEVER intended to do Anal, for anyone. I always thought how gross. . .But when you are in love. . .? Well it seems fine in my mind now. So I was not bothered when he brought up wanting to try it out sometime. We have no DONE it yet. He has fingered me there, but even that has been a bit of a situation. After the first 3 times, his finger felt good. But it still sometimes just feels annoying. . .and when he tried a second finger it was no fun for me at all. But I still want to try this because I did enjoy it initially and I think the problem is the transition to larger things. But. . .What can I do to make it easier? Is it a good idea to get a certain lube? Is it a good idea to maybe use a certain object or toy? We don't want to try full dick in ass action til I can take more. . .because obviously two fingers hurting, means I am not ready. But I am not sure what to do. . .?