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  1. Frank84

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    Hi people my wife gave birth over 3 weeks ago and need help on when the right time is to have sex again at moment we are both really horny but don't want to rush in till my wife's body is ready

    Advice needed
     
  2. wetness1

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    I thought frank had all the answers? ;)

    I guess the answer depends on how well the birth went..
     
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    Was an emergency c section in end the baby was stuck
     
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    Does she still have staples or stitches in her stomach? If so, please wait. You don't want to rupture the them.
     
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    One of my friends had a c-section. Her doctor told her to wait 8 weeks before sex and then only after a check up to make sure everything was healed. You could always ask her doctor.
     
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    I suggest waiting until her check up and as AGFUNK suggested, ask the doctor.
     
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    Wife had two scheduled C sections, we started back up after three weeks. Vaginal is usually quite a bit longer.
     
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    I think you should wait a bit. Should something go wrong it could get nasty.
     
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    6 to 8 weeks! Within that period you may cause permant damage.
     
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    My ex waited 3 years.......one of many reasons that she's my ex.
     
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    ^ WELL. 3 years seems a bit.....extravagant.
     
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    3 years.....thats it?? I thought you could hang 12bb.....gosh.
     
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    We didn't go completely without, just didn't have intercourse .....
     
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    The longest was 2 years for me. The hardest was a one year run, after wifey gave birth i got deployed, talk about alone time. I was going crazy.
     
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    My girlfriend had a C Section and her doctor told her to wait 6 weeks before sex. It's probably more for your wife because it was an emergency and they had to get your child out.
     
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    Been to doctors and had a good chat been told 6 weeks min so she decide to give me a blow job last night. Was awesome
     
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    Better to wait. You could have her go in to see her OB. They can check everything out early to see if its safe. With my last baby, I was given the go ahead at 4 wks. But do make sure to be protective. Her body isn't ready to get pregnant again wether she can have sex or not. But hey its a good time to experiment w different ways of pleasuring each other! = )
     
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    And congrats! We just had a baby too!
     
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    Thank you congratulations on the baby hope all is well we did experiment last night she loved the full body rub down and clit stimulation
     
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    give her body 6 weeks after giving birth for a rest from sex