My GF and I have been together for almost 3 wonderful years and I adore her for all that I am worth. We've always been very sexual and often crave each other more than legally allowed (LOL). Here's the problem: Although the sex is AWESOME, I often feel that it's a one-sided affair with her mostly getting what she want before, during and after sex. Last night we tried 69 for the first time ever and we both loved it but I still feel like she could be more accomodating of my needs and wants. I would love a chance to cum in her mouth but it's a no no. I'd love to try anal - anything anal - but alas that's also not allowed. And lastly, like most men, I would love a MFF threesome or even just watching her with another woman. She's open to the idea but she says it's too risky for me to be around the other woman in that situation. She's not even interested in my defence argument - I'd never cheat on her or even do something in front of her that she wouldn't be ahppy with. I'm stumped here. I would like to know the best way to go about "getting my way" without hurting her or causing an argument. Any advice folks? oh I'm 22 and she's 23 if it impacts your answer.