Advice for developing some serious massge skills?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by Emart, Feb 7, 2007.

  1. Emart

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    Seems like this topic would be already flogged.. but my searches were fruitless..?

    Anyways, I have a goal of delivering the MOST amount of pleasure physically possible to a woman, and I don't want to limit that to just sex. A skill I'm looking to seriously master is a sensual, full-body massage. From what I hear, I give great back massages and am confident in them, but I'd like to take it to another level.

    Does anyone have any experience in the matter, and can anyone recommend me any books or videos on the subject? I'd rather hear feedback before I invest time and money into a random source.

    Thanks!


    p.s. I'm also looking for advice specific to breast massage, but I'll make a different thread for that.
     
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    Pop over to Thailand and learn the full body massage techniques the girls employ there! I've never heard of men doing it to women, but I see no reason why we shouldn't.
    It does involve a lot of wetness and soap, so a carefully drained area is needed, but massage oils could be substituted.
    The masseur has to learn to use all of their own body to make it good and that includes feet, knees, elbows and shoulders, as well as hands.

    Very memorable!!!
     
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    I trained as a massage therapist and aromatherapist....have been told I am good at it....

    There is no special technique but you have to go with your own body's natural rhythm.

    Slow strokes, long sweeping ones and pressure where its needed.

    Head massage can be erotic as breast massage...

    Pull the hair a little and rake your fingers through it...oh God I love that...

    Lucky ladies...

    Can I be your first client....haha!

    Its about time men became more aware...like E said its not heard of men doing it to women....thankfully with honeys like you around, that is changing.

    I am glad to hear you are so sensitive to your imminent lovers' needs....
     
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    Emart

    This may help....if you cant get it to work....go into google and type in sensual massage, erotic massage etc and there is loads of stuff there that may help...

    http://www.massagefree.com/
     
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    Thanks for another good answer Sexy, anything aroma-wise you would recommend?

    I like sliding my hand(s) up the back of her neck/head and gently tugging, and slowly raking up the sides of her head.

    I tell you, I'm no amateur....just not a pro yet :D

    And yes, you're more than welcome to come let me know how well my techniques are working!
     
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    I blend patchouli sandalwood and ylang ... tis gorgeous and an aphrodisiac

    pathchouli with a dash of orange is beautiful too..

    will book the flight now then ... :)
     
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    Do you blend the oils, or make a boquet?

    Oh, and I picked up an instructional full body sensual massage video, seems to be great material so far. Better hurry with that booking!
     
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    I blend oils.....i use them every day...

    One of my favourite perfume blends is melissa with a dash of patchouli...it combines the feminine and masculine notes...

    A man in a pub came up to me and said he could smell me from the other end of the bar...I apologised and he said "dont its lovely...takes me back to my youth" ...aaahh...

    I find the oils although strong arent overpowering like chemical perfumes which I cannot tolerate...

    You can pm if you want and I can give you my email address and we can chat more about it....

    If you want?
     
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    Whatever you do, don't use shampoo! lol
     
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    Hahaha Jag....

    After reading your story...I am SO careful what I use....

    lol!
     
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    LOL, yes something I will never forget!