This probably isn't the place to put this but I am looking for different opinions and advice, especially from the ladies. I have a 35 yo step son who has lived with us for 5 yrs and I think it is time for him to be on his own. He came from his fathers' because his dad couldn't handle him anymore. Our son is into Crystal, crack, weed and works occasionally. It has gotten so bad, last week I told my wife I was going to get a place of my own because I just couldn't handle being around him. Our marriage is rock solid and divorce is out of the question. I love my wife but can't handle the kid. What are my options? How would you handle the situation? I have only been a member for a few weeks but, after reading how you have helped other problems, believe there will be a lot of good input.