Add Fantasy in sex

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  1. lovelysu

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    how to have fantasy in our sex life
     
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    That depends on what you are into as a couple. Try a simple role playing scenario in the bedroom. Add some great erotic "costuming". Try a few different toys.......What do you normally do?
     
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    How to add fantasy huh?

    Well one of you dresses up like a Hobbit, and the other dresses up like a blatantly gay elf and you just go at it. Playing D&D while coupling is completely optional.
     
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    hahaha....i love that one A1

    "blatantly gay elf"

    You are are wasted on this board.....I swear you are......


    hehehehehehe
     
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    Adding fantasy into your sex life with your partner ca be lots of fun, especially if you are willing to tell them EVERYTHING.
     
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    thats a hard one for the most..
     
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    What, adding fantasy or telling them EVERYTHING? If it is the later, I totally agree. I have also found when I do it I feel closer to my guy because then he really knows ME.
     
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    I think sex without role play and fantasy can become boring....

    Being theatrical, I thrive on losing myself in a world of sexual fantasy...i love dressing up in black lace and high boots and fishnet stockings

    Trouble is there are some less than imaginative lovers out there....

    But I have managed to find one or two...

    I intend at one point to find a castle in the middle of nowhere and have my lover take me down to the dungeon where we can lovingly torture each other...

    If you are asking for suggestons there are plenty...

    Gender reversals
    Domination
    Submission
    Hooker and John
    Strangers in a bar
    Doing things with fruit

    and loads more...

    Enjoy!!!
     
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    If one of you is dominant and the other is submissive: One plays the cop and has to take the other in for "QUESTIONING." :brow I like that role anyway. I'm the cop by the way. :phat
     
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    Done those and more,
    I used to work evenings on construction
    And of course its true that Men always think of sex
    so when it got the better of me I would call my wife
    and tell her to dress like a slut or hooker and meet me
    at a certain bar. I would try to make it a different one
    each time. Then I would go in and pick Her up and
    take her Home, And of course I paid her for Her services.
    And you all know that a whore will do anything for a price
    well She did.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    correction

    "men AND women think of sex"

    "a whore will do anything for a price"

    hmmmm.....I hope your wife doesnt object to you referring to her as a whore on an open message board...

    I would....tbh!!!
     
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    Was this a question?
     
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    An observation Rupture....

    My observations sometimes get me into trouble

    So maybe it just stay that way.....?
     
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    We watch group sex DVD'S during sex activities and fantasize about what they are doing.
     
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    I think sex without role play and fantasy can become boring....

    I am curious for how many people this is true and why. Thanks in advance!
     
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    Because you are a couple for decades, and there are only so many positions and variations on normal sex. I calculated taht my wife and I have had sex somewhere between 4,000 and 5,000 times. I love her, and I look forward to every time we have sex, but variety helps a lot.

    Variety includes outdoor sex (scheduled for this afternoon in fact), playing card games with variations of truth or dare, role play and other things. A romantic weekend away without children is also a nice variation, especially somewhere cosy during winter.

    Role play is easy, I am naturally dominating and she is naturally submissive, so we can work on our strengths and have a fun time without either of us feeling uncomfortable. It is great when the play moves forward and you fuck with all that pent-up passion, almost as good as make-up sex after an argument!

    It is only natural that couples seek variety from time to time, this afternoon being a prime example. My hands are sweaty, my heart is running fast, it is a really nice spot under the trees at the park and I can't wait to get there, get naked and have sex in the open!