about anal sex

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by pisschrist, Nov 15, 2003.

Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.
  1. pisschrist

    pisschrist New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 15, 2003
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    me and my girlfriend have been together for over a yr and a half.. we are very much in love and have a VERY active sex life together.. a lil while ago we got relly drunk and had anal sex without a condom.. we had washed many times her ass and hole and my penis... how much chance do we have of contracting something and is there ne way of having anal sex without a condom while still being safe as u see in so much pornos??
     
  2. Giancarlo

    Giancarlo New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2003
    Messages:
    166
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Los Angeles
    Not that I know of. Always use protection when having anal sex. If she and you are totally healthy, chances are you contracted nothing.
     
  3. pisschrist

    pisschrist New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 15, 2003
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    gd gd
    how do all the porn stars and that get away with all of the no condom wearing thing they do??
    cos i havta admit me and my girlfriend liked it way more with no condom..
     
  4. Giancarlo

    Giancarlo New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2003
    Messages:
    166
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Los Angeles
    I'll probably agree to with what you are saying. It is better without a condom but just make sure you both are totally healthy and totally committed. That was the same thing in my relationship.. I did do it without a condom... but when time came for my health check up mandatory for government medical insurance, I was off the charts. ;)
     
  5. Shellen77

    Shellen77 New Member

    Joined:
    Aug 25, 2003
    Messages:
    650
    Likes Received:
    7
    Gender:
    Female
    Stupid question here...
    Aren't you afraid of the condom breaking while doing anal? I've done anal a few times before & I've never had anyone use a condom. Granted, the people I were sleeping with were all committed relationships. Now that I think about it, I was really stupid about the whole anal thing. Could you enlighten me a bit about the condom thing? Thanks!
     
  6. Hug_It

    Hug_It New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 26, 2003
    Messages:
    42
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Olympia, WA
    Well I think the confusion comes in when it's said that it's easier to transmit/contract std's by anal sex due to the tearing (sounds bad I know) and the fact that the intestinal tract absorbs fluid by design. If you are in a commited relationship and sure neither partner has any std then wearing a condom isn't much of an issue. If you aren't you should wear a condom no matter what kind of sex you are having :) .

    If cleanliness is the reason you are using a condom, you are to much of a wuss to be doing it in the first place (JK).

    Just my two cents...
     
  7. Giancarlo

    Giancarlo New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2003
    Messages:
    166
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Los Angeles
    well don't get rough when doing anal, i hear that will minimize tearing...

    I almost always wore a condom with my boyfriend... but we were deeply committed.. so sometimes we went without ;)
     
  8. pisschrist

    pisschrist New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 15, 2003
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    so basiccly u r all sayin usin no condom sometimes as long as u are commited and dont have no stds and make sure u r both clean and make sure u dont teaar nothin its fine??
     
  9. Giancarlo

    Giancarlo New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2003
    Messages:
    166
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Los Angeles
    Well use a condom if it is somebody you don't know so well. If it is a person you are committed to and know who is healthy (meaning they have been tested and you have you) no condom is needed.
     
  10. randy69

    randy69 New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 1, 2004
    Messages:
    8
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Ireland
    Anal sex take care

    I had a friend and his lady friend would not take the pill because of the possible side effects. They both agreed to going totally on anal sex, and guess what she got pregnant, she had serious words with her doctor saying how could this happen he said it was caused by a leakage of sperm from her anus. This is a true story.

    So take extra care do lots of cleaning after, and later again.

    Randy69
     
  11. helyea

    helyea New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 4, 2004
    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Kentucky
    wash well before and after
     
Thread Status:
Not open for further replies.