A question for the women...

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by Youngman88, Apr 13, 2007.

  1. Youngman88

    Youngman88 New Member

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    I am 19. I have never had any sexual experiences with a women. I have actually been too scared to go on with the intimacy because i am so self conscious about my penis size. I guess that since i "missed the boat" so to speak in sex when i was younger, i never knew how i stood on my size. I am a little over 6 inches and i am currently with a women who has had multiple partners. I just dont want to disappoint her, if i'm not "up to par" with the other men she has been with. Any suggestions?
     
  2. Kronnie

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    Here is a penis chart site , check your size in there.

    http://www.neo-tech.com/penis/


    You may only disapoint her , if you are not able to use the rest of your body and mind, and only concentrate on your tackle :)...

    Your penis is only one part of you that can give emanse pleasure to a female sexualy.
     
  3. Nettle

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    You shouldn't worry. My husband is barely 5 1/2 inches and is perfectly adequate in size.

    I have experienced 7 1/2 in length and quite honestly it was uncomfortable in doggie position.
     
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    It sounds like a perfect size to me....

    Dont worry about it young one...am sure many will
    love it...

    Good luck

    xx
     
  5. Kronnie

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    One thing i would say to you, kindly .


    Is do not worry about her " Former lovers" as that is what they are former ..you are the guy she is with :)
    Which is a very good thing for you :)
     
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    that chart doesn't look right. there's no way that's 9 inches, is it? it says actual size, but has that link been modified in any way?
     
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    stop worrying about the size.
    It rarely matters =)
     
  8. Kronnie

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    Animularisen stop worrying about the size.
    It rarely matters =)

    theres s much more to the size of your cock, it can help being bigger at times, but mostly its everything else that will really get the fireworks exploding for your woman.
     
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    Being a good lover goes way beyond the little fellow in your underdrawers. Penises come in so many sizes, it's pathetic. To put your fears to rest, your size is the norm. Never compare yourself to a porn movie. Believing in larger than life stuff is for the naiive.

    Having 'multiple partners' doesn't necessarily mean she's ever had one good LOVER. A good lover begins by being attentive to her body language - taking time to watch her movements, reading her pleasures and discomforts, and adjusting your approach accordingly. Talking to her, making her feel that it's all about her. Desiring to give her a fantastic experience, slow... enjoying each moment and each pause in the action. Relax... and make the moment real, and special.
     
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    my current boyfriend is just under 6 inches and I think he is perfect. We are both inexperienced and if he was any larger I would be intimidated. You are definately not abnormally small and if she's worth your time she is interested in your mind more than the size of your equipment.
     
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    I would HATE to have a 9incher inside of me...uughhh...

    It makes me think of the old adage "more than a handful
    is a waste" (in reference to womens' breast size)

    No point really....would be too uncomfortabe....

    ...unless of course your anatomy is designed like the
    Mersey Tunnel...

    lol
     
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    Which i am thankfull for (that some women have deeper vaginas to accomodate the larger sized males * ), other wise being born with a big penis would mean never ever getting any female to want me ...

    * I know pretty much any female can accomodate any sized males , but not all wish to ( just incase someone wanted to jump in and correct me ) but i am very glad that some females do :p
     
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    For those who do not know the anatomy of sexual response, as arousal begins the vagina lengthens and dilates and lubricates. As arousal continues, the cervix moves to lay almost horizontal. This is why a longish penis doesn't hurt when a woman is fully aroused, because if it hits any part of the vagina it will hit the anterior formix which is quite pleasurable. And men with longer penises can go all the way to the end.

    I am not long enough (7.5") to have bottomed out on more than a couple of girls who had smaller vaginas, but in all cases it never hurt them because I made sure they were well aroused for my girth, and therefore it was a painless exercise.

    If you have a big penis (long and / or thick), you learn very quickly that partner arousal is the key to pleasurable intercourse.
     
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    The one thing I learned from my wife is it's all on the outside. My wife almost never orgasms from intercourse. I usually give her head before or after for her fun. While she certainly enjoys it intercourse for her is not the "main event". If you want to make your girl happy you will have to ask her what she likes. She may not know the answer. In that case you'll just have to try different things and ask her how it feels. Sex is so much more about communication than it is about size or "pushing buttons". Show her you can listen and what you'll eventually hear is a lot of happy moaning ;)
     
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    Never be ashamed dude you are fine. Get out there and have fun! Tongue just as powerful if not more then a penis.
     
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    I had multiple partners and my SO was a virgin when we met. However I now realize that I never really had great sex until now. He's the best lover I've ever had.
     
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    Size does not matter only erection matters. Even if you have 4 to 5 inch penis you can enjoy you life. So be happy and dump the tension.