So, straight folks, how do you feel when someone of the same sex says things to you of a sexual nature or "hits on you"? To my knowledge, I've never had another woman make a play at me or flirt with me in a face to face situation. Maybe it's happened at some point but, I did not pick up on it. I have had a couple female members of SF say things to me that makes me think that they would indeed fuck me if they could. Whenever I come across something like that, I don't know how to respond. I'm not turned on, off or otherwise, I'm just in shock, I suppose. I have a hard time responding to such comments and I'm like a deer in the headlights. :ugh Am I the only one that feels like this? EDIT: Wait, I DID have a gay or bi woman come sit next to me on a bench and stroke my thigh once so, I guess maybe that counts. I was about 21 at the time and had just had a major public screaming match with my asshole b/f at the time. He stormed off as we were waiting for a whale watch boat and left me there on the bench alone. I was so upset that I started crying, really sobbing out loud. In a few minutes, I felt someone sit on the bench next to me. I thought it was my b/f but, I was too pissed at him to look at him. I just looked at the ocean. I heard a sigh and then felt a hand on my thigh. When I looked down I saw fingernail polish. Scared the poop out of me, so I jumped off the bench and walked away, my heart pounding in my chest. Funny shit, that.