[Ask a Girl] A question for different ethnicities...

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    I am caucasian and am attracted to all types of women, but have a magnetic, gravitational, super strong attraction to black, asian, and latin women (and a million others.) It seems to me that black women typically do not find caucasian men attractive. Is that true, or am I imagining things? I would love nothing more than to run my hands over some beautiful brown skin and kiss those beautiful lips...and then some warm, wet...

    Anyway, in general does it just depend on the guy, or do black women find caucasians men unattractive?
     
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    Seen black women with white men plenty of times. Not often, though I've definitely seen it before. I don't think it usually matters, depending on how you're brought up.

    I have always had a physical draw to latina girls and I don't know if it's a mutual thing or what. I realized in my later years that I had a growing interest that's manifested through the years to liking girls that are darker complected.

    I've had most my sexual partners probably half and half with white girls and hispanic girls, which doesn't coincide with the difference in minority populations here. Granted I do look a bit darker because I'm Portuguese and Israeli but I still don't find that being the primary reason for being with darker girls. Some girls will be exclusive to race. I wouldn't think most.
     
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    I find myself drawn to caucasian men more often so than darker skinned men. It's not a preference.. it's more a "who is more in to me?" entity.

    Caucasian men seem to be lured in by "my beauty" and fall in to "my trap" as some might say... more often so than darker men.

    I think darker men might find me ordinary like you know I see this type of woman at home or often.. where as I might seem more exotic to a caucasian man.

    Pfft.. I don't know really I am just guessing. But yeah it is what it is..
     
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    Well I'm a Cauc too and most of the women in my sexual life have been of Asian origin.
    It is not so much their appearance but their ultra feminism but also the manner they tend to treat a man.
    For pure grace & beauty I consider Thai girls on top of the list.
     
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    i never really noticed any real attraction to one race more than the next. looking back at it, 3 or my 5 girlfriends have been asian :p but, the girls i've slept with have been from all over.

    but i've seen many black girls with white guys. you'll be alright, just go for it.
     
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    I am african american and I find very often that caucasian men are attracted to me too, I don't mind it at all. Because what matters is that the man is decent and loving no matter what race. You making me hot thinking about what you would love nothing more than to do...........LOL
     
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    and yes this :)
     
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    Well, that is certainly a "trap" that I would willingly step into. I agree that being caucasian, women of other ethnicities have an exotic aura. Its a mysterious thing, especially if they are actually from a foreign place because then their life and cultural background are truly different which adds to the allure and can make for great conversation. You are definetely an alluring one...
     
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    That is encouraging...thanks for posting.
     
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    I see some black girls with white guys, I've been hit on by black girls as well as asians before. I can apreciate their beauty, but but I'm in to athletic german/scandiavian types....lucky that's what I married.
     
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    Have always loved Latin and black girls and my wife is dark skinned Cuban...if I am into a white girl its usually a darker skinned one with dark hair and brown eyes.
     
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    I have to say that something about ethnic girls really makes my spine tingle. Yet to find one who fancies either some fun or something more serious. But I'm sure time will tell.
     
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    It's strange, but the women who have been most overtly flirtatious with me have all been asian. Problem is I was always either with someone else or too stupid to do anything about it. In person I am usually very...shy?... I am not usually one to approach women I do not know or take advantage of an opportunity when it presents itself. I guess I have a soft spot (actually a rock hard spot) for asian women...but I don't know if that stems from them showing interest in me or if I somehow find them "exotic" or physically more appealing somehow. The mind and libido are strange things indeed...
     
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    Skeptix, that one is easy for me to understand.
    You get hit on by Asian women because you seem like no threat and they like that in a man.
    Now you got to go the next step and very, read very respectfully be strong and lead them to where they want to go all along.
    It's a kind of a contradiction; they afraid of strong "come-on" guys yet still expect a man to act as one.
    Do it right and then guarantee you will be a very happy guy.
    I have become a specialist in this and reaping benefits big time!
     
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    I find girls from latin America to be much more flirtatious than white girls. I think partially because white girls are kind of stuck up in my area. I think Asians are the same way with American's. My friend spend a summer down in Phuket he said there was so many Asian girls after him he was getting laid every other day.
     
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    My wife is African and when she came to Australia she quickly found herself the object of some white men's fetish fantasies: sex with a dark (they're not actually black) woman. However, she wanted something more than to be a fetish object! She actually became wary of white men and was that way when she met me; soon realising that my attraction to her was a lot more than her dark skin colouring.

    In any case, if dark or African women have problems with white men, it might be that they are wary of them as my wife was. No woman wants to be a sex object because of her skin colour.
     
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    I can understand someone NOT being sexually attracted to certain racial types, since such preferences often are determined in early childhood, but saying that you ARE attracted to black girls, but could NOT be in a relationship with them makes little sense to me. What exactly disqualifies them as permanent partners?
     
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    Probably something from early childhood.....
     
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    It's called racism, and I advise you to snap out of it. You're a grown man (or soon to be), so who cares what your family thinks? You sometimes seem to drool all over some very mixed-race women here in the forums.
     
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    Volk don't feel bad or guilty about your upbringing or belief a lot of people only feel comfortable with their own race and cultures. Thats the way of the world. Its only a brave few who venture out and go against the grain to try something different. Family approval is very powerful and well you want the approval of your family, they are very important. I like that you are at least being honest. I have been told by a wise person that our brains are like computers and we follow whats been programed in from little tots. But when we are 18 years or older is when we can really decide to go against the lies we have been told and the programs and reach for the truth.
     
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