A question for all

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Kronnie, Feb 16, 2007.

  1. Kronnie

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    When it comes to sex

    Which would you say you are :

    Dominant
    Subbmissive
    Switch
    More Dom than sub
    More Sub than Dom

    For me I am more submissive sexually, but enjoy being dominant at times as well.
     
  2. cbrmale

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    I am naturally dominant, but when I was with casual partners I would let the woman run things with me just gently guiding her when I thought I needed to, because one-off casual sex needs a different approach in my opinion.
     
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    DOM here
     
  4. pirouette

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    Switch. :)
     
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    switch for me as well !!!!!!!!
     
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    Switch... But I love it when a guy is kinda rough. Don't know why, but it's a turn on. ^^
     
  7. SexyScorp

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    Dominant....but I love the struggle both sexually and psychologically.....the most strongest of men often like to be dominated

    :)
     
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    quite dominant most of the time, but also i can switch.. depends also on the partner i suppose..
     
  9. heelfetish

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    Assuming 'switch' means we can reverse roles, then I'm a switch. I love to dominate, then completely release control and let her dominate me.
     
  10. NaughtyKnickers

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    Me? Switch, I enjoy both. There's a time and place for both.
    But I'll admit, dominating men definitely turn me on the most. :eek
     
  11. Barbwire

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    Compared to ya'll I have the most boring sex of all time, but, there was one time when hubby and I were dating and decided that tying up would be fun. We were both a little tipsy, but I got out of bed and ran around the house trying to find something to use as rope. I finally grabbed the cotton straps tied around a futon mattress I had, and ran back into the bedroom, all excited about being tied up. I gave him the straps and he looked at me blankly and said, "Oh, I thought you were going to tie me up." I said, "No, I want you to tie me up." So, after a bit of discussion, we flipped a coin. (mind you, were are drunken sex nerds) He won the toss, and lay there passively on the bed as I tried to tie him up. I just got disgusted and said, "Well, the least you can do is pretend you don't want me to do it and put up some sort of a fight, duh!" Anyways, I tied his wrists to the headboard and sucked his dick. Big friggin' deal.

    What I really want is a man to grab me, tear off my clothes, throw me on the bed and ravish the shit out of me. Maybe spank my ass and tie me up or down, whichever he wants. Mmmmm, yummy!
     
  12. SexyScorp

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    Cowboy Lover

    But...

    You have a very interesting and colourful "inner" life...dont you girl...

    Now that is a gift....

    I know....:)
     
  13. Barbwire

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    You said it, sista! If it weren't for my "inner" sex life, I'd have no sex life at all.
     
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    cowboy_lover, your post was quite funny.. "stillgiggles*

    i am happier if can take control.. i mean, c'mon, which woman could really dominate a man.. *ducksandruns*
     
  15. Dreama

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    I like being submissive, though a change of pace isn't bad either.
     
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    OOOOOOOOHHHHH doberman

    You is really skating on very thin ice there mate....

    We all know that women are the stronger sex....dont we now?

    :)

    Men just THINK they are.....

    If I was to stand over you with the heel of my boot on yer belly and a whip in my right hand.....you would stand NO chance

    at all!!!!!
     
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    I see Scorp took the bait Doberman, LOL.
     
  18. Kronnie

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    Lmao....now that would be a sight to see,....

    not quite the same as a riding crop an a cowgirl with boots and he cowboy hat on, her body glistening with sweat............


    Im a gonna shut up now hahahaha.

    ((Ya know though that its always the submissive that actual has all the comtrol...because it is them that says when its to far or when to stop....))
     
  19. doberman

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    just tell me the place, where and when.. :D :lol

    tonight, i am about ready to go there: www.kinkypartyclub.com :D :lol

    sounds like i have a date.. YESSS!!!


    i think, i have to go with the second quote.. :D :lol
     
  20. LimeLight

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    More sub than dom. I like being taken advantage of in bed.