Im not quite sure whats going on here, and its far too personal for me to share with anyone close to me in my life just yet. Dad and I arent exactly close.. and I have no older brother or anything. As for my friends its too complicated to get into lol. Maybe a more anonymous appeal can get me some answers >.< Im a male, 22, and just recently lost my virginity. I know this isnt good, as Im guessing kids these days lose it at 14 -___- But I lost it to a girl that Im crazy about, and am hoping that she is the right one. She has had sex before with two previous boy friends so I was kinda going into this blind while she was experienced. The good thing is she was okay with it, even happy about it. When we first had sex it lasted for what seemed like hours, and ended with her climaxing. I however.. couldnt.. I dont know why. I always had the idea in my mind that because im so old.. and have gone without sex this entire time that id be the guy that cums way too early.. within the first few minutes. Its not like it didnt feel good, I felt amazing. I felt like maybe I could if i kept going a lot longer tho.. but she was done. I figured it to be nerves. She wasnt too happy that she didnt make me cum and I explained to her that since it was my first time I was nervous and didnt exactly know what to expect. We ended up shrugging it off and cuddling together. The next time we had sex, it was sort of the same thing.. we had sex in much of the same positions, felt just as amazing as the first time and nothing. we tried again when we woke up in the middle of the night and I finally came. BUT.. the next 3 times weve had sex.. I havnt been able to cum since. She does after an hour or so but I still cant. Now its to the point where she feels terrible. She gets really quiet and turns over in bed wont really talk to me much. I try to tell her that its not her fault.. and that its my fault but she is still frustrated at her self. I thought guys had the opposite problem of cumming too early? To be honest.. I dont even care that I dont, because I just want to make her happy. But shes not happy if I dont. The one night I did, she looked so happy with her self and I havent seen that happy face after sex since. Its not a condom thing, because weve had sex without it and still didnt cum. whats wrong with me ): has anyone had this experience? will it pass.. or something? When I masturbate I can come quickly, but sex feels so much better which is why im confused. I find this girl incredibly attractive, sex feels amazing, and Im falling in love with her too. I feel so lost about this..