So the ex husband and I got to talking today. Great conversation! I told him of one of my girlfriends woes and he said "wow this is the second time this week that I have heard about somebody having relationship problems" then he went on to say that him and I have a better relationship than a lot of people that are actually in a relationship. You know him and I have had our share of ups and downs although he may harp on me a bit about the kids I have come to realise that he is one of my best friends. Since we have been getting along so well lately I took a long hard look at him the other day to see whether there was anything there romantically but nope nothing. Wouldn't that be great if there was lol But yes we talked and he explained how he was glad that we can be friends unlike some folk. He always tells me he cares about me and that he wants the best for me. I am so glad that we can get along now all bitterness diminished and we can give each other advice on dating lol But we have both come to the decision that you know some people are just not meant to be in relationships. LOL we even compared it to animals and how most animals aren't in monogamous relationships. What are your views?