A new toy for the woman

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by male_with_ques., Feb 27, 2008.

  1. male_with_ques.

    male_with_ques. New Member

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    I am thinking about purchasing a new toy for the woman. Im afraid to get her anything bigger than what i am, for i am worried she will realise what shes missing out on or enjoy it better. I dont wanna lose her nice fit either....so my question is do you think i should stay at my size or smaller or will the 7 incher be alright?
     
  2. BassDude

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    Dude...you're afraid to get her a toy that's bigger than you? :D Make sure you get a vibrator that's aweful and doesn't work worth a damn...you wouldn't want her to run off with the vibe! Vibrators make great husbands...they don't leave the toilet seat up, they don't leave dirty underwear lying in the floor, they don't burp or fart, they don't give any back-talk, and the only affection they need is to be washed after each use and have their batteries changed periodically. :D:p:D (Just teasing you!)

    Seriously though...if you're going to get your woman a vibrator, don't be insecure about it...get her something that will knock her friggin' socks off and that she can appreciate (and brag to her friends about)! The rabbit vibrators twist and wiggle and spin beads and do all kinds of shit I can't do...I enjoy using it on her, watching her using it on herself, or even hearing her upstairs by herself buzzing, moaning, and banging around! (Hmmm...I wonder if they have surgery to give me that twist/wiggle/spinning beads capability? "Bionic schlong".;)) She loves the rabbit, and also recently got a Hitachi Magic Wand, which several of the women here swear by (I'm sure CL and Rose will chime in).

    And don't worry about her liking the vibe better than you...a vibe is to a woman what porn is to a guy...it's merely a toy, not a replacement for a human lover (unless there's some major problems in the relationship already that the vibe didn't cause). :cool

    Dave
     
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    dressd2dpress New Member

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    AND BD FOR THE WIN! Yeah man, seriously, don't worry about her enjoying a dildo more than you. It's never as much fun to do to yourself what you could have someone else do for you.
     
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    Absolutely right...couldn't have said it better. Get her something that will rock her world, and every time she uses it she'll think of you. On the other hand get her some lame little fake penis, and every time she uses it...she'll think of you.
    L.M.
     
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    Haha, that is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Maybe instead of buying a boring vibrator that won't do anything for her, because you're insecure, you should buy er a decent one that will be fun for her, and work on improving your own sexual technique.

    P.S.: A vibrator isn't going to mess with the "nice fit" she has with your apparently unimpressive? penis.
     
  6. Fliteskates

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    I'm getting this for my g/f...

    http://www.adameve.com/Vibrators/Rabbit-Vibrators/sp-wild-g-spot-vibrator-11417.aspx?f=1&itemtype=30

    Alot of women seem to love it... it has sold 20,000 units or more... the reviews are great, almost everyone who bought it loved it.

    Some said it was a little big, but they got used to it.

    If it will rock her world, why not buy it?
     
  7. BassDude

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    This is such a great point. Here's the parallel: let's say your wife bought you a porn video or took you to a strip bar for a lap-dance. (Whatever...something of a sexual nature to turn you on.) Now, how would you feel if she picked a porn video with women that she knows you would find unattractive and unexciting, or picked you a lap-dance partner that she knows you'd find totally gross or unattractive? It would be obvious to you that she was more concerned about her own insecurities than she was about actually giving you something that gives you a thrill. Right? If she would pick the most unattractive actresses or dancers she could find, why even bother doing it? It would probably be detrimental by clearly demonstrating that she puts protecting her own insecurities above pleasing you. Sounds a little selfish, doesn't it? Selfish gifts aren't usually good gifts. Doesn't feel so good when you look at it that way, does it?

    Now, same scenario BUT she buys you a porn flick with women she knows that you'd be totally turned on by, or she picks/suggests a lap dance partner that she knows you'd just love to fuck if you weren't already married to her...well, she'd be pretty clearly demonstrating that even if she has some insecurities, it's more important to her to please you than to protect her own insecurities. Now that is unselfish IMO...in fact, it's REALLY unselfish...putting your partner's feelings ahead of your own. Wouldn't that make you feel like "wow, this woman loves me AND she shows it in an unselfish way." That's much cooler...don't ya think?

    We can sometimes accomplish great things when we get our own insecurities out of the way (I'm not even talking about just sex). Buy her a vibrator that will make her scream with delight and beg for more. If you're going to do it, do it right, dude! :D

    BD
     
  8. bsxy420

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    i personally dont own anything bigger than my SO. but that is by choice.but he has tried to talk me into things that are a little larger. but we have bought something like the dolphin that fliteskates has posted a link to. now if you want something that will rock her world i would suggest one of those!
     
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    Can't go wrong with a rabbit, EVER! She will love you for it. Once you rock her world with it I assure you she will thank you properly and profusely!!!
     
  10. Princess_Olga

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    Fliteskates, I actually just bought that vibrator you're about to get your g/f...I love it! Its the rotating multilevel beads in the shaft that really do it for me when I get them partially into my vagina--I think it stimulates the inner parts of the clitoris that extend along the vaginal lips. Okay, I'm done with my shameless advertisement.