A new position

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Dj Matty, Aug 11, 2009.

  1. Dj Matty

    Dj Matty New Member

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    My wife and i have been together for 15 years (marreid for 9)

    We tried anal sex for the first time a couple of nights ago but had a bit of trouble. Can anyone offer any tips for a couple of first timers.
     
  2. heelfetish

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    This thread has lots of great info to help you out: http://www.sexualforums.com/talk/showthread.php?t=11194

    An excerpt:

    Hope this helps!
     
  3. illcuminu

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    Also try a lube like anal eze and warm her up with a small vibrator and work your way up.
     
  4. heelfetish

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    Anal Eze is a numbing lotion, and is NOT recommended due to health concerns. If it hurts, you aren't doing it right. Numbing lotions dull the pain that is trying to tell your (her) body that something is wrong.

    Lube is required, but stick to water-based lubes if using a condom, and silicone-based lubes if both are D&D free and going bareback.