Occassionally my wife experiences vaginal dryness. We've tried different commercial lubes and some were pretty good, and some were only so-so at best. We liked grape seed oil, but it was very messy. My wife read about coconut oil the other day. We had some virgin coconut oil we had bought for cooking, so we gave it a try. I think this is the most natural feeling lube we have ever tried! Just a little bit, no more than the size of a pea was adequate for fingering her. She used it to give me a great handjob. It felt like it almost got a little warmer as she used it. Give it a try, we liked it!