a little observed psychology/fantasies not yet explored

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  1. kunoichi

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    basically I had an idea today that lead to a weird discovery. basically for the longest time I have noticed that gay couples have whats called the power bottom fantasy and straits do not. {remembering this is from what I've seen.} it struck me as weird because. for one sexuality to have an overwhelming hold on a fantasy seems anti-imaginative. but as I started thinking about it I came to this conclusion. that mainly gay males are the ones with the power bottom fantasy. here is how I got there. if your into anime like I am or just porn in general. you notice a theme. guys fantasies about being gay or lesbian are usually because they are forced to be but when you view like wise submissive lesbian fantasies in girls. the opposite is true. they are usually freed. so why is that.{for one I would love to start seeing more forced lesbian hentai. heck even a strait power bottom fantasy.} it still seems odd to me that we are not free-er in our expressions when people don't need to know about them. besides that I have one more thing. my top ten list of fantasies that really need to be explored in fiction. no particular order.

    1. forced feminiazatio hentai{they have never done one in anime that I know of and it's a shame.}
    2. multiple worlds each with their own rules.in each you are a different person of a different sexuality.
    3. forced lesbian hentai please.
    4. warrior pecking order
    5. strait power bottom
    6. in love with a literal bisexual godess/god that messes with you
    7. pansexual witches
    8. lezy hearts{think kingdom hearts but beter
    9. final pantasy[straight, gay , bi, lez, who cares at this point
    10. pansexual porn{it's nothing like bi porn which is just a pile of people. think of a subscription with a random type and theme a month. if this is a geeks magazine I'd love it to bout.}

    p.s. please list you're fantasies you'd wish fiction would explore more and lets compare.
     
  2. MordsithLove

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    Re: a little obsurbed scycology/fantasies not yet explored

    Uhhh..Hi!

    Sooo, not sure if I'm following you're thread in the right path but the "God that messes with you" fantasy sounds interesting :D

    And if you really want to know my "fiction based" fantasy, if there were an anime of Mord'sith Mistresses and all the sexy cruel things they do to their prisoners....I'm evil, I know :dgrin
     
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    Re: a little obsurbed scycology/fantasies not yet explored

    It appears I am ignorant of several things going on in the sexual world. I would be curious to know how you became interested in these things. My interests are very typical (I think) and largely involve male rock stars and athletes. I do know what hentai is because I read about that on this forum and then googled it, and I've understood what bottom means for several years now. Other than that I am clueless but will look forward to your future posts.
     
  4. lbushwalker

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    Re: a little obsurbed scycology/fantasies not yet explored

    I understood nothing of the OP's thread other than he needs to use a spelling checker.
     
  5. Cappy_Dick

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    Re: a little obsurbed scycology/fantasies not yet explored

    Straights do not have "power bottom" fantasies, because straights do not "top" and "bottom". "Top", "bottom" and "vers" refer to the Giver and Receiver in gay male intercourse respectively, with a vers being equally into both roles.

    Top, bottom, and versatile, as used in regards to sex between males, refer specifically to penetration role, regardless of the physical positioning during sex. For example, in positions where the inserting partner lies on his back and the receptive partner straddles the inserting partner, the inserting partner is still considered to assuming the "top" role, even though he is positioned on the bottom (and vice-versa). When used in reference to heterosexual and lesbian sex, the terms top, bottom, and versatile usually refer only to position and not to penetrative role.

    In BDSM, the terms top, bottom, and switch are related, but BDSM-distinct phenomenon. Some smaller circles in the BDSM seem to have adopted and derived these terms as loan words from gay culture. However, the terms are not indicative of penetration, but that of who is the Dominant, submissive or stitch roles. I spoke with several friends still very active in the BDSM lifestyle. The consensus I got is that the terms Dom, sub and switch are almost exclusively used in the lifestyle. "Top" and bottom seem to have been adopted by some smaller circles that have a lot of influence from the gay community. Gays in the BDSM lifstyle, with rare exception that I have never personally seen, The Top is always the Dom and the bottom the sub. However, in straight BDSM this does not indicate the the penetration factor.

    A good example would be an F/m Dominant/submissive couple. The female is obviously the "Top". But this is not an indicator as to if strap-on play is part of their activities or not. It is also true that the submissive male would be the "bottom" under the borrowed term, but likely often penetrates the dominant female for her pleasure and as a reward for being a good boi.

    Animated Hentai, regardless of what sex acts are being depicted, tends to be rather over the top and often exaggerated beyond any point of possible reality.
    If you ever want to see any reality to your fantasies, find a like minded person and start acting that out. If you hope to achieve that, you need to rethink about how you post. Your original post indicates that you are either a 17 year old who purposely distorts spelling and grammar to gain attention, or too stupid to be able to write intelligently. You lack of understanding of the terms you bring up either suggests immaturity or lack of knowledge.

    xx
     
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  6. kunoichi

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    Re: a little obsurbed scycology/fantasies not yet explored

    this is something I had to get out of the way before I posted again. I f sound angry or argumentive. I am not. It’s just the internet and it only seems that way.

    to cappy dick
    “Animated Hentai, regardless of what sex acts are being depicted, tends to be rather over the top and often exaggerated beyond any point of possible reality.”
    Du!!!
    “If you ever want to see any reality to your fantasies, find a like minded person and start acting that out. If you hope to achieve that, you need to rethink about how you post. Your original post indicates that you are either a 17 year old who purposely distorts spelling and grammar to gain attention, or too stupid to be able to write intelligently. You lack of understanding of the terms you bring up either suggests immaturity or lack of knowledge.”

    1. Sorry I found this a bit insulting. For one it completely negates the nature of the style of communication we are using. Just think of it this way you are awesome my intelligence and age. I have you know… that despite your assertion that what I written denotes to be authoritive. Just ask yourself this question. If I know all this why would I ask in the first place. it just seems you assumed that I was speaking out of a place of authority. Also you should note spelling and grammar aren’t my strong suit. And you should know that you’re assuming that I am purposely doing this. is not only trying to assume who is on the other end of this conversation but assume there intelligence. Btw I am working on my spelling and grammar I am currently working on these kindle books.
    a. Better spelling in 30 minutes a day
    b. Business English practice book
    c. The only grammar book you’ll ever need
    d. How to write clearly rules on English composition
    Lastly my I didn’t spend time getting a G.E D for nothing. That should at least prove I am not dumb at least. Sorry I f I had to do this I am not trying to start an argument. It just gets me rilled up to think you assumed I was trying to tick you off.

    To sand which

    “It appears I am ignorant of several things going on in the sexual world. I would be curious to know how you became interested in these things. My interests are very typical (I think) and largely involve male rock stars and athletes. I do know what hentai is because I read about that on this forum and then googled it, and I've understood what bottom means for several years now. Other than that I am clueless but will look forward to your future posts.”
    1. Well I am just interested in human nature. Not all at once but every now and then I catch a glimpse at something that interests me.
    2. Long time otaku
    3. The fact that I like variety. No literally. I tend to not stick to one fantasy. That’s why I love the idea of pansexual porn. It seems like it would be interesting and I wouldn’t need a but load of money.
    4. The fact that Most my sexual fantasies unlike my life fantasies are based off two things. Enjoyable entrapment and enjoyable torment. Now like I said I switch it up every now and then just to keep things fresh.
     
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    Yep. Even the urban dictionary affirms that "power bottom" is a gay thing. Straights don't do top bottom. So that's why you don't see straight power bottoming. Largely the point of my post.

    Btw I am working on my spelling and grammar I am currently working on these kindle books.
    a. Better spelling in 30 minutes a day
    b. Business English practice book
    c. The only grammar book you’ll ever need
    d. How to write clearly rules on English composition

    Sure could have fooled us. Sorry if you feel insulted, but your writing is a reflection of you and sorry to say, the reflection wasn't a very good one.

    Also, you state to male but use a female avatar. That's real slick. Not only is it deceiving if you are indeed male, but also may lead many to believe that you're just not credible. Sorry, but that's just the way it is.

    Not trying to knock you dude, but if you proof read your posts so they make sense and use spell check, you'll be understood better and more likely to be taken seriously. If you are male, get a male avatar, or if you're female, change your details.

    Just a little helpful advice from someone who has been posting in sex forums more than likely longer than you've been alive.

    xx
     
  9. lbushwalker

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    Cappy has spoken:bow
    But can I add suggest you use a proper dictionary such as;
    dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/american-english/
    oxforddictionaries.com/browse/american_english/