OK this is my first post, I'm 33 male the issues I'm having is well first I ejaculate too quick, I read all the post about masturbating before hand and changing positions and it does help a little, but the reason for the posting is the amount of time it takes me to get it back up so to speak. It's not 20 min, 40 min, more like a day. sometimes after the wife and I have sex and the next day we are at it again I will get hard then go soft, Any input I do need to lose about 30 lbs and am working on that but just seeing if anyone else had that problem and what they did, I am seeing a urologist in about 2 weeks, (been having throbbing pain in my testicles at times)and going to bring up the PE, and how long it takes me to achieve an erection again, Would taken some kind of testosterone booster help? Anyone try it? Oh and should I bring it up to the urologist or my GP?Oh and as soon as I explode I go soft in an instant.