My gf and i are both bi but when we go out she always does all the talking. ive never been the on to initiate anything with the guys. i guess im a little on the shy side when it comess to that. everything always works out for us but on seeveral occasions she tels me how she would love to sit back and watch as i do the talking. My question is how wuld i present myself so that it is known i swing both ways. she wants to see guys hit on me and the flirting between us. im more than willing to give her this im just a little on the nervous side with it. Also if i were to do the chasing.... how does one tell if another man is willing. what signs would i look for in guys to know they would be willing to swing a little or maybe a lot to the other side? im not looking for relationships.... thats what my gf is for. this is completely about sex.