Well, I was a virgin up until April 20th. My partner was also a virgin. I lost my virginity on a beach. Anyways, I have a few questions about things my boyfriend does.. When he fingers me, he never gets the right spot, no matter how hard I try to move his hand to help him. When he eats me out, he never really gets the right spot. When we have intercourse, it's really good, because I start to feel an orgasm coming on, but then he stops, and starts jacking himself off. So I give him head, and then I jack him off until he cums.. but I never get my orgasm. We've done it four times now, and I've never gotten one. I'm kinda scared to tell him he's never made me orgasm before, because he's really proud of himself after we have sex. I love having sex with him, but what are some ways I can let him know I want an orgasm? I've never really touched myself before, so I don't really know what an orgasm feels like, and I'd like him to give me my first one. Also, are there anyways to make him want to keep having intercourse without stopping to jack off? Because I don't see why he has to jack off.. because I do that before we have intercourse, and I give him head afterwards.. Sorry if these questions seem stupid.