Hi everyone, I have two questions and they're kind of similar to the same old questions that get asked here, but with some different twists. I hope people can help me! So I was wondering how can I go about having sex for longer with my girlfriend? I usually cum really quickly - quickly as in a few minutes or something really disappointing. :nerv Once in a while, however, it takes me a quite a while. I feel like one time I went for a LONG time because I wasn't aware until I wasn't cumming that I had to pee. Haha. But I maintained a strong erection and pleased my girlfriend very well. I feel like I only perform well about 1/4 of the time. She is very good at everything she does, however, and maybe she is just incredible at what she does because I think she is. But I am VERY good at pleasing her in other ways, it seems, so that's alright. I have been told that I am really good at what I do, but I don't think so with actual intercourse because I can't last long. I think that only pertains to the other fun things we do together. I just wish I could go for longer. It's weird - one time she made me cum TWICE, and I didn't think that was possible for a man. I'm confused. Right now we are away from each other for quite a while, so I have returned to the dreary ranks of masturbation. One thing I noticed is that I used to be able to make myself cum really quickly when I masturbated, like, just how I did whenever we had sex. But now, it takes me quite a while to cum while I masturbate. I masturbate quite often, about once or twice daily. Has masturbation become dull to me since I was used to having sex almost every day, or having some sort of sexual relations every day? I haven't had sex with her in a little over a month, and so maybe I'm hoping that masturbaton has possibly increased my stamina? I seem to be able to do that for wayyyy longer than I used to be able to. That would be really nice if I am increasing stamina and not just getting bored with masturbation. Haha. My orgasm from masturbation seemed like it was a little dull for a little while, but now that I am able to do it for longer, I ejaculate pretty fully I would say. Once again, the nugs are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I need your advice!