A few ideas for romance ?

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  1. Kronnie

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    Just asking the Ladies would having your guy do these work for you ?

    Number 10 Organize a scavenger hunt
    When your woman comes home, have a little adventure prepared for her. Place a note somewhere in the house telling her what to do. Have a second note waiting for her at the site of the activity in question, giving her the next instructions, and so on.

    Be sure to make the scavenger hunt sexual by telling her to slowly prep herself for a night of sex. For instance, tell her to have a glass of wine in the kitchen, then to moisturize herself in the bathroom, then to put on some music -- you get the idea.

    Number 9 Tell her she's beautiful
    Women will never tire of hearing this. But they'll love it even more if it's unexpected. Call her randomly at work and tell her. Leave a note with this message in her purse, so that she will happen upon it some time in the day. Likewise, send her an e-mail saying you can't wait to see her that night. She'll be so excited to see you, she might just leave work early.

    Number 8 Write her a hand-written letter
    E-mail may be one of the most revolutionary inventions of this generation, but it sucked something very important out of life: the mystery and romanticism of the hand-written letter. So, recreate that feeling and send her one. It could be a love letter, a narrative letter like the ones in authors' anthologies, a confessional letter, or any format that your woman would like. Just don't print it.

    Number 7 Take her out for lunch
    Again, it's the element of surprise that does the trick. Show up unexpectedly at her job and take her to a nice restaurant nearby. You can even bring her lunch and have an impromptu picnic somewhere. You'll be the highlight of her day, especially when her coworkers see that she has such an awesome man.

    Number 6 Cook her favorite dish
    The ladies all agree that a man who knows his way around a kitchen is quite the man. Every guy should know how to prepare some basic dishes and at least one difficult one. Learn how to cook her favorite fare and you've got yourself a guaranteed booty voucher. This could even be as simple as making her favorite coffee or mixing her favorite drink and bringing it to her in her favorite cup or glass

    Number 5 Take her on an "official" date
    After a long time together, couples tend to get lazy and skimp out on the extravagant thrills of the early stages. This is something many women lament. So bring back that lost excitement and take her on a very nice date. Bonus points if you take her to a fancy place where dress is formal (you know women love dressing up). Or you can try recreating your first date to the letter. To make it really official, send her a formal invitation by snail mail.

    Number 4 Buy her a token present
    One day, for no reason, show up with a thoughtful little gift. And I'm not talking about a generic teddy bear, or other unimaginative stock gifts. Give her something with meaning that represents something for her. You will get bonus points if it's something she actually needs, but never told you about or barely mentioned in passing. This could be as simple as a blow dryer or a new purse.

    Number 3 Dance with her
    Remind her how well you can move your body by dancing with her out of the blue. It can be anywhere: in the living room with some nice music, in the halls of a building when no one's around, even in the park. Wherever it is, just do it. She'll feel like she's in a movie, and will probably be eager to see you move in other ways

    Number 2 Give her a flower
    Don't wait for Valentine's Day or her birthday. Get her one flower today, just to make her feel appreciated and adorn her place. Make sure to be original, picking one that she is not used to receiving, like a single rose that was dyed or an orchid. Under no circumstances should you give her a cactus and pretend it's an exotic plant.

    Number 1 Pamper her
    When she comes home from a tough day at work, have a hot bubble bath with candles and chocolate waiting for her, and join her inside. You can also give her a foot massage. Better yet, give her a full-body one. At bedtime, treat her to the best oral sex she's ever received. Believe me; she'll know how to thank you.they're the ones that countIn the end, it's the little things you do that she'll remember most fondly; little things like having a caricature made of the two of you or choosing her over Monday Night Football. You can even work your own timing into it, doing this during the off-season, or when two teams you don't enjoy watching are playing. It may seem sappy to you, but you'll get it back in spades.
     
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    Oh yeah ...... ALL of em......


    But I am a married woman......so in my dreams.....

    Maybe I could pay someone to do all these......lol

    Thanks Kronnie...<3


    Are you actually one of those very romantic French men with a sexy French accent...?
     
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    Hehehe Sexyscorp...married or not these can still be apllied by your husband
    Cant be any less fun i would think for a married female of a dating female hmmm :p

    To set things a little straighter....I am both French and English...but i have more an englsih accent, but i find both languages difficult lol....spoken not so bad, writen my grammer is terriable :p
     
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    Great list Kronnie!

    I'd appreciate and adore any of these things, they're very sweet and thoughtful! :eyes
     
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    Haha Kronnie.....I have been married three times....

    Marriage and romance dont always figure in the same sentence...

    Will have to get myself an adoring lover one of these days....

    Cant wait!!!!!!!!!
     
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    I hope they match up to exactly what youd be after.....
    Romace is always a good thing....Ive never been married...so perhaps i still have deluded notions about married couples hehehe....no ramance....no pampering wow.......makes me think of not ever getting married :p...
     
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    Please forgive my cynicsm Kronnie

    Not all marriages are a romance free zone....lol....

    Ive had three....so I am becoming a bit of an expert....

    There are some married people who are very romantic together.

    We have a son who has been very challenging, so most of my energy and my husbands has been used up with him...(he didnt sleep properly for 5 years etc etc)...

    Being parents isnt the most romantic of roles, if not rewarding also...

    One day, when I am older and freer........I will have romance, passion and love in abundance in my life...

    Amen!

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    No its okies Sexysrorp...i have known a few married couples before...and they mostly seen to hold the same views , and when children are involved they do take up a lot of time and resources :p
     
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    Perhaps you will. I sure as hell thought my romance and passion had long left me! Once the kids were pretty much on their own...BAMM!!!! - Thorn & I looked cross the room at each other and it was like...."WHEW, baby! Where you been all my life? :brow "

    We are now planning our 30th anniversary... hopefully a romantic cruise (never been on one), and it will be filled with passion, sex, romance, sex, cuddling, sex, love... and did I mention SEX? :lol
     
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    Thanks Rose for the reassurance.....I do sometimes wonder?

    I have been told by more than one psychic (and my own inner voice) that my life will totally change when I get past 50....

    In my dreams, i intend to have a ball.......not sure if the husband will be involved though....lol.....

    But at least I will tell him.....and he will probably reply with "phew thank God for that"

    lol

    Enjoy your cruise both of you.....sounds lovely!!!!!!!
     
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    Plus i guess these ideas could also be done the other way round as a surprise as well.....Just a thought hehehe
     
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    Absolutely Kronnie

    I have always been the romantic one in my relationships....far more than the males....

    But it can wear a little thin when one is initiating all the time....:)
     
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    Yeah that it can.....perhaps the guys at times need an extra spark plug lmao.....
    I like to pamper females ....i guess thats due to me being on the submissive side though..

    Nothing like seeing her eyes light up from laying on a great suprise for her....and knowing nothing is expected in return, except for her love :)