hey all, i'm new here, my friend told about this site, so i went to it & found that it seems to have alot of readers, so i wanted to post these questions here. sorry if they're not too 'sex' related, some are, some aren't, but i figured i'd post them on here anyway to see if anyone could give me some help. 1. i'm on birth control, so my periods are regular (finally, they didn't used to be, that's one reason i'm on it). i just ended my last period about a week ago, and i've been having cramps on and off daily since then. this has never happened, so i'm wondering if somethings up.. it feels just like i'm about to start it, but i know i'm not going to, so i'm a little confused.. anyone have any suggestions, etc.? also, last time we had sex, i had a really bad pain, almost like a cramp, in my abdomen. this has happened before though, and went away (it went away this time also), but is that normal? 2. i've noticed that in the morning my urine has a strong odor to it. its normally only in the morning, right after i wake up & use the bathroom, after that it normally is 'normal' (sometimes it will still have the odor until the 2nd time i pee, but not usually). i've read that it might be a ph inbalance or something..?? i don't have any discharge/pain, etc. so i'm not sure what this could be! could it be associated with the cramps?? this has been going on before i got the cramps after my period though, so i'm not sure if this is right. i did have a uti in early june, and was on 10 days of antibiodics for it and it cleared up, could it be that the infection is still there? 3. i've never had an orgasm.. period. i've only been sexually active for about 4 months though, but still, all my friends keep telling me somethings wrong with me. i also have very little sensitivity.. could this be from horseback riding for.. 13yrs.? alot of people have said that this could be why, but one of my friends has been riding for 8yrs. & she's fine.. but everyone's different i guess.. it's def. a little frustrating though, for me & my boyfriend! i'm friends with one of his ex's, and she said he's 'great', and i've heard the same thing from 2 other girls.. so, i don't think its him, but who knows! so, any comments on that to? sorry that was so long, but i wanted to be specific. my parents don't know that i'm not a virgin, so i can't go talk to them about some of these things!