A couple of sex issues I'm dealing with

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  1. givemesome68

    givemesome68 New Member

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    I have a couple of sex issues I'm dealing with. I have a huge crush on a girl who knows it but we don't ever have a sexual relationship. But I get so turned on and have to jerk off until my cock is sore when I think of her getting boned by someone else's big dick. And here's the next part, I feel humiliated by it so I want to be even more humiliated and I think I want to get worked over by a nice big fat cock, and I'm a straight guy. I think I want some cock because it will help me see what she is getting and how it feels. I think my jerk offs would be very intense once I know how a big meaty cock feels in her mouth, by knowing how it feels in mine, knowing thats what shes getting. Any input appreciated.
     
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    I have to say that it sounds like you are putting way too much thought in to this crush.
    If you are feeling curious about your sexuality, then you maybe give a guy a try. However, if it just an attempt at feeling empathy, then it sounds like you are becoming very obsessed with the girl.
    Is this girl someone that you are friends with? Or is this someone that you are admiring from afar?
     
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    please give us your age,
    And are you dating the Girl in question and how old is she.
    We need a lot more info on this.

    Hiker
     
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    Well, even without the other info, it seems there are two ways of looking at it. Firstly, this might be a slightly unhealthy obsession that you have got yourself into, and it may be time to think about cooling it off and find somebody else. I find that porn can help with this, concentrate on something else, maybe find stimulus some other way.
    Secondly, this could be quite healthy curiosity you're experiencing. I've always been attracted to both men and women, but some people don't realise that they are until something triggers it. This could be that trigger, and you may well want to explore it further. However, be careful if you do and choose an understanding person to do it with, cause trust me, men can get very rough and it's always worth telling them to be gentle if you've never done it before.

    I am quite young though, so perhaps an older, more experienced person's view would be better in this instance. That's my read on it though.
     
  5. Bluesy

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    That's exactly what I was thinking. It sounds to me like fledgling bisexual urges couched in non-threatening "straight" fantasies. There's a huge spectrum of sexual preference...you can prefer women while still getting off on the male physique. Whatever your individual brand of sexual orientation (__% straight and __% gay), embrace it--it's who you are and absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.

    Whatever your fantasies, there's nothing wrong with them. Just enjoy :)