A bit of concern...

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by GHO05T, Jul 24, 2007.

  1. GHO05T

    GHO05T New Member

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    Ok... I'm not gay... I'm pretty damn sure I'm not bi either (I love women way too much)...

    BUT, for the past few months, I've had this very strange attraction to transsexual (TGirl/Shemale/Ladyboy) porn:nerv. I don't know what that means and I've actually looked it up on search engines to find out. I get mixed results... Some people say it's a confusing genre of porn that means you're bisexual and don't know it. Like I said, I'm very doubtful of that. The other reaction was simply that this was a very bizarre fetish and that many straight guys get into it (moreso than gay guys). As a matter of fact, I read a statistic that the largest audience for this type of porn was straight men...

    There's some type of fascination about a woman having an extra anatomical part to her that appeals to guys, including myself. I have NO intention of actually tryiung anything with a transsexual woman (the utter THOUGHT of having a penis anywhere NEAR my face or ass repulses me:ugh), but the porn is a big turn on for some reason. I don't really get it and I wanna know what it means...

    Is it really just a bizarre fetish of mine? Or am I in denial about being bi-curious? Am I subconsciously trying to placate myself into believing I'm not bi by reading into the stats I read on the net?

    Help me out here:(...

    *GHO05T*
     
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    I'm not sure what the perfect answer to your question is; if you find something a turn on, you find it a turn on, that doesn't change your sexual orientation, perse.

    You'll find all sorts of 'normal' people sharing their 'abnormal' sexual turn ons and fantasies on this forum, so rest assured you aren't alone in enjoying something outside the mainstream.

    You said yourself that you don't wish to have sexual contact with a penis, so that dispenses the probability of you being bi sexual or gay, does it not?

    It sounds like maybe you're thinking and worrying too much, (something we're all prone to now and then ;) ... try to relax and accept yourself for who you are. :)

    Remember, that kind of porn would not exist were there not an audience to demand it, and the largest audience is straight men. You are obviously not alone. ;)
     
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    Duly noted, and thanks for your answer.

    I do tend to worry about stuff a lot (in general), so I'm assuming that's what this is about. But this worried me in a different way, and for good reason in my opinion... I don't think about it AS much anymore because of the research I've done, and because I simply don't allow myself to look at that type of porn much...

    Still kinda unsettling...

    *GHO05T*