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Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by pbs, Nov 15, 2011.

  1. pbs

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    My wife and I love oral sex, but have yet to find a good position to 69 that allows us both to relax and go for long periods. Any suggestions?
     
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    I find we have the same issue. Laying on the side seems to work the best if going for longer times.
     
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    Yeah laying on your side is better, easier on the neck too
     
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    We end up on our side all the time. Experiment with angles. Its a lot easier for her to get at your cock so have her lift her upper leg and rest it on your head or shoulder.
     
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    Yep, side is best for us
     
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    Her on top works for use with a few modifications. We have some "sex furniture" with a foam wedge that props my head up perfectly, and which she can comfortably straddle, so that I can enjoy her. I'll have my legs bent and she places a pillow against one of them to help support her head while she enjoys me. It is very comfortable for us.
     
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    Kind of depend on the couple's relative sizes.
    If she almost the same height then most positions suit but if there is a considerable difference it does pose some challenges and requires some novel solutions.
    BTW, same thing with standing up sex.
     
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    We always prefer position 49 not 69. Where I am in position 4 and my male partner is in position 9. As he is not in favor of receiving rather than providing pleasure, and I prefer only receiving and not giving, so this is the best position for us to relax.

    See the image attached for position 49... :p
     

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    DW on top. She's small, I'm big. I can lay there with her on top for a long time.
     
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    I'm short-ish and because of this I'm that not much bigger than most women, and I find that 69 is quite easy (an advantage of being compact). Relative size of the two of you does make a difference.