69 Distractions

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by deric, Feb 25, 2007.

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  1. deric

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    I was wondering if anyone else is distracted by the 69 position. Just thinking about it gets me excited, but when I get down to it I am so distracted that I don't do well.
     
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    What are you distracted by.........thinking about being distracted by it or being distracted by thinking about it....

    Aaaahhh.....you mean whilst she is sucking you.....its hard to concentrate on licking her...

    Yes I have at times experienced that....

    I sort of get so stoned on it the feeling i am getting from him eating me.....the lovers penis is just hanging in my mouth and I have to kick myself up the butt to remind myself to suck it...

    Yeah i know what you mean....

    lol
     
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    Although I love doing it, it's highly overrated for exactly that reason, which end to concentrate on??
     
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    Well yeah, for me it's usually been a position where after awhile each partner takes turns. I don't think I've ever gotten off doing 69, but I love it! (Eh, loveD it -- don't do it these days.)
     
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    I tend to agree with Elvis here.
    For one, my husband and I just don't fit well together for this, he with a very long torso, and I'm quite a bit shorter, so it's just not comfortable to begin with.

    But aside from that it is distracting, I'd much rather focus wholly on pleasuring him; then giving him my undivided attention and all of the delicious feedback he loves while he pleasures me.
    That makes it last longer, too. :p
     
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    See? Bein' tall ain't all it's cracked up to be. :lol
     
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    I have an extra long torso and Mrs E is a shortie, but we've never had any problems. Maybe you should practice more?
     
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    :lol

    Elvis, I certainly won't complain about that suggestion. Of all things to need to practice, 69 is by no means the worst. :p
     
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    It is good to practice in theory, but I seem to think that I would rather concentrate on her after she has finished. I tend to want to just lay back and enjooy it unless I am on top entering her.
     
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    My wife and I are more matched in torso size (the benefit of being smallish), but I don't use the 69 position to come or make her come. It is fun and intimate and a nice change, and for comming we'll move onto something else. I think pleasuring and being pleasured is a distraction.

    With some prior lovers they sometimes abandoned me when we got into it and made it solo for themselves, which DID work. One for the girls to think about maybe.
     
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    We sorta have to trade licks. It's hard to give and get at the same time. Plus, I get so excited from eating her, I won't last long if we don't take turns.
     
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    I like it for a few minute just because it seems so "descarado" ... ... bold or daring or something like that! Often I ll stop and just look at her pussy, play with the lips while she sucks me, ... look back and watch her suck me while I rest my head on her thigh! And I ll delight myself to the curvy ass, caress one cheek then the other, ... all while getting a blow job! Then after a few minutes, I ll switch and just hop on and fuck like crazy! It s a great build up!
     
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    To me, the entire scenario just gets me more and more sexually turned on! Laying on my husband, sucking his hard cock - and feeling his artistic seduction on my clit and pussy - .... for a while I DO get distracted, but only for a while. Soon I am totally engrossed by the feeling - and soon I lose my concentration on sucking him. but he doesn't mind, because he knows i am close to orgasm, and it gets him hornier---waiting and watching me. Once I get off, he knows he has full reign as to what he wants me to do for him... and I am MORE than willing to accomodate... :)
     
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    Very good idea ROSE. I like the way you think. I will remember that I can be distracted and get down to business later. I am always trying to keep up.
     
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    I actually love making total love to a Woman's
    pussy, That means getting into licking, sucking and nibbling on Her
    that I actually would rather Her wait until She has has cum at least 3 times
    before I can even think of what She is doing to me.
    And when She is giving me head, Well I want to concentrate
    on enjoying it.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    I agree. I guess I like to concentrate on one thing at a time.
     
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    On top 69?

    [EVIL]Is it best to have 69 with the girl on top... coz i like being on bottem but the guy can never reach... and im too shy to go on top... dunno why... just feel weird.[/EVIL]
     
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    if your lover is good at what there going then it can be very distracting, just keep practiceing
     
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